i sometime ask myself what is right, what is wrong.
relationship with relative
sex with animal
relationship with underage
relationship with same gender
even staying single, yes, i wonder whether staying single is
right or wrong.
this is what i think,
relationship with relative is
wrong because of genetics. relative have the same defective genes.
when relatives mate, their offspring will have a 100% of getting
that defective genes. if everyone mate with relatives, everyone
will have something wrong with them like 100% chance of certain
diease, 100% chance of certain disorder.
i feel that sex with animal and relationship with same gender is
wrong but i dont know why it is wrong. this feeling could have been
from my upbringing when society was different. i can empathise that
if a child is raised by same gender parents either through adoption
or surrogate, that child will grow up seeing same gender
relationship as normal. but this is just feelings. feelings aside,
i don't know whats wrong with these 2.
relationship with underage is wrong because a person brain keeps
developing till around age 25. at different age, the brain is at
different stages. an underage person does not have the physical
brain infrastrcture to deal with emotional problems and may leads
to mental problems in later life(or so i heard). having said that,
different country have different age limit for being underage and
just 100 years ago, Chinese women marries at 15 years old just like
my grandparents who was 30 and 15 years old of age.
i dont now whether staying single is wrong because there is this
arguement of same gender relationship is wrong because of worsening
the birthrate. without adoption and surrogate, staying single
worsen the birthrate too. many would agree it is our right to
reproduce, not a duty. however if we look at our society when not
having enough young generation is causing problems, our right to
not reproduce is in question. if a right causes harm, should it
still be exercised? would reproducing becomes a duty?