have we ascertained that the guy likes the girl in the first
place, and that the girl isn't "zhi zhuo duo qing"?
i know it's a scenario, so anything goes.
let's just say the guy was just flirting and he didn't mean
anything by that statement. which means he is still doing the same
thing that he has been since they got close. HE hasn't changed, but
SHE has, all of a sudden feeling "fan" and don't wanna contact him.
pretty obvious here who's in the "wrong".
however if the guy has fallen for her, then nobody's wrong. such
things happen. of course the girl has every right to reject him
gracefully, and well, it's all up to the imagination as to what
might happen next. he may relent and just be frens, or go haywire
and pester her even more. so, AGAIN, it's pretty obvious who's
"right and wrong" here.
i tend to put quotes to my "rights" and "wrongs" becos, well, u
know this little thing called "life"? It isn't/shouldn't always be
bounded by rules. 
