suggestions urgently needed

last SG · 2003-04-02T00:25:26+00:00

i just tell him lor, we are good friends.. when u nid someone to tok to, i will listen to u and learn him my listening ears lor

strawberri SG

hmmpz.. tink e gal shld tell e guy e truth.. i noe.. truth mayb cruel.. but if e gal dun clear things up soon.. e result may be disastrous.. lidat more cruel.. heehee.. since u sae e guy oso fell out of luv.. so mayb he oso tryin to fill e empty "place" in his heart?? juz my opinion.. heehee.. hope e gal solve e problem soon!! Good luck!! Wink

edLow SG

It's quite unfair to the guy.
Beside being more sensitive with body contact with the guy, it will be good if the girl do speak carefully. Just in case she mislead the poor guy.
Anyway, both parties cant be blame as mention. Cos both parties fall out of love at the same time but perhaps the guy is thinking too much due to the reaction from the ger?

Lynette80 SG

there was one occasion i tell him tat i appreciate wat he has done for me... then i sae to me.... i dun want to be in any relationship right now..... den when i tell him tat i got to noe new guys, he will be unhappy... dunno wat to do....

Lynette80 SG

i already tried to distant myself from him.. i think roughly he get the idea.. somehow i just feel tat i very bad.. but right from the beginning, i onlie treat him as a good friend.. its tat simple...

edLow SG

like tat lor. it might sound bad. better than let him fall deeper rite? and end up sour the frdship?

Lynette80 SG

one thing for sure... i can tell u tat the ger is not making use of tat guy... furthermore tat ger in the senario is me...

i have never ever make use of tat guy.. when i broke off with my ex, i confide in him.. i never even sae i like him or wat... i just treat him like how i treat other guy friends... one thing i must admit, he is a superb guy.. when i needed him, he was always there for me...
but there are no love involved in this friendship...

right now, i dun even dare to sms him.. whenever he sms me then i will reply lor.. but he will sae to me "if i dun msg u den u dunno how to msg me meh?"
mabbe to some pple out there, i am making use of him... aiya... i also dunnoe la.... i onlie he is a good guy.. i not suitable for him...

Confused

Lynette80 SG

ya... i just treat him as normal guy friends mar.. other guy friends also dun have tis type of problem......

edLow SG

Well, but is he thinking the same as u? Hmm, I happen to come across this situation before. This ger really treat me nice and somehow during my chalet, she was there and somehow everyone turn up at the chalet though we were an item. But things doesnt turn out wat was expected when I told her I like her. All the while she only took me as a frd? In fact, till now, I still have no idea wat the relationship between both of us.
I guess it would be good if u explain thing or do something to hint him / inform him.

Wh|mSiCaL SG

Believe me, you don't have to feel bad at all. If you lead him on, it's even worse, you'll hurt him even more. So you are doing the right thing. Can't force yourself to like him if you don't wat. As long as you let him down gently, he will appreciate your honesty Smile

*sigh* Have to wake up so early just to finisg my report Sad

Flight Cadet Officer SG

I think the society should turn tables.

Let the girls come ask the guys out on a date rather than old traditional method of guys asking girls out.

When guys don't ask them out ...... they ask why nobody wants me ? When guys ask them out ...... When is he so irritating ??

choosers can't be beggers

Lynette80 SG

i tot u wanna sae tat u wake up so earlie just to post a reply here? hehehe =P
i never lead him in the first place lor.. never ever.. he just a simple friend to me.. and i treasure this friend alot... i think i will tok to him and tell him tat i just treat him like any normal friends....
but i will have to think of a more appropriate way so tat i wun hurt him.. Sad

Transmission SG

if i were you.. i would ask him out ..have a chat ... face to face ... think its the best solution .. just express out what u feel... let your heart have a chance in this conversation...say whatever how you feel...
for me ..i won't give hints to people ... just bomb in his face ...haha.. thats for me lah ..
Well.. not say i wanna curse you or what... this friendship between the 2 of you will never be the same as before ..
sometimes in life, you have to let some really good friends go.. I am just speaking thru my own experience...
good luck ah ... Wink

xiao_shin SG

just be friends with him lor... make him understand that u are not suitable for him.. or tell him that is better for both of u to be friends then going into relationships and there are even better gal than u out there... although it is straight forward but rather than letting him sinks deeper and deeper mah... like means like dun like means dun like.. there nothing as make use of him or what lor... silly gal Cool
haha...

De|usi0n SG

it is like a problem put simple..as below

u go toliet pang sai, those squat one, than after pang sai, u realise that after u flush, some of them still stick to the toliet bowl...u cannot use hand to make it go, u also scare that the next person will know you donno how to pang sai...

RebeL SG

............
Wat theory is tat ?!

Lynette80 SG

tell him straight in the face tat i dont have any feelings for him? how to open mouth? me always very wishy washy one.. .. so bad..

Lynette80 SG

De|usion theory.. haha

RebeL SG

Better tell now den to lead him on rite...dun have to tell in face mah...via sms or icq also can rite...

strawberri SG

ya.. tell him earlier lorz.. if u dun wan tell him straight.. at least hint hint lorz.. (but muz b quite ming xian lorz).. heehee.. góód luck.. Wink

Lynette80 SG

lead him on is not an appropriate phrase to use.. cause' right in the beginning i no lead him on .. .till today, i also never lead him on.. wrong usage of word..

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