I knew this China girl working in HK about 4-5 months ago in a
dating website. Her photo is very chio and very surprised that
she messaged me to chat. She was able to contact me cos she pay $
to become a member. After chatting for 2-3 days, her membership
disappeared. But we still contact through MSN. When I asked her,
she says she likes me and already find what she wants, so she
terminated the membership.
For these months, we chat everyday on MSN. Sometimes she will
call me on phone to talk for a few minutes. We discussed and
agree that end of the year,, she will come to Singapore and
stay with me for a while (2 weeks social pass?), and then if
everything ok, I will go to her hometown to see her parents for
discussing marriage plans. She will also quit her high paying job
in HK to stay with me.
Does anyone know what are the procedures and paperwork I need to
make? ROM and ICA...
Wayne - It is classic Con, I know of people who fall for
it.
1) chio gal - don't need to spend time alone, and need to go on
dating website.
Dating website is a classical - hunting ground, people willing to
pay to go in - of course easiler prey !!!
2) Of course she pay membership - you go catch fish you
don't buy bait ?
3) 2-3 days she cancel her membership ..
Now that is a huge red flag for con !!! she cancel it for
good reason - she already hook you big fish. She also caution
- as what happen if you get your friend another member to check her
out ? She is covering her track . By cancelling her member -
she concentrate on you, smart girl .
People like these have many accounts under different names, even
MSN account for each victim - this way - they don't get cross wire
and expose themself.
4) Even if a gal found what she wants - if serious into it she
would still want to meet up before even saying that to you.
Another red flag.
5) Yeap like my friend - one word of advice - this is how it
work. Be smart do not give her any cash. Yes she will bring you to
china - yeap you will visit the family - but it is all setup -
father , mother , family all hired !!! Then you will give he
money for the dowery , wedding ..... then next come story about
father or mother sick need hospitalisation ... more money. In
end when she got enough - disappeared . You like may friend ,
dodo - find and find - go to china home, it is not there , rental
one, all actor and actress . Dodo did not give up finally
found - actually she is already married with husband and even have
kid ... one big con.
My friend here is what you do . act blur .... go with it , but
do not part with any money. Yes go visit the family - yes note down
all the detail quiet how to go there address
. After you visit 3 mths later ask a friend or you
yourself go back to check out the family - ask around - yes
they may be paided to act out, but surprise check like this will
expose a lot.
