I say something maybe alot of you may disagree or laugh. I
had only got 4 gfs in my life, all ended with nothing. And had
experienced numerous let-downs from the girls I tried to chase,
until heart really give up. I am not ugly, have a degree and stable
job, dun smoke, dun fool around, dun gamble...maybe abit, but
much less than last time already ;). So dunno why every girl
eye cannot see me.
I cannot see any potential in dating anymore, so actually, I
already planned to go for marriage agency to find either Vietnamese
or China (Hainan) bride.
If try to know a girl need 1 year, and if fail a few more times,
I will be in the forties. My parents are 70 and I know they are
waiting to see me settle down, although they say nevermind. Being
the only son, I also sense the need to carry on my family name. If
another few more years, my quality will become bad...then cannot
make it, how?
So all these add together, then I decided to risk it. Also, many
couples who dated for years also finally divorced after marriage.
Are there anyone who marry a foreigner bride here? Maybe can
share your experience and give advice too? (thanks for everyone who
give me their advice, appreciate alot! :) )
Whether u like it or not, marriage is not something you can rush.
Sympathize with yer predicament, but this not something you can
just pick out from a supermarket. There r a lot of hiccups in
finding mail order brides. They often run away.
Let Love be the centre of your marriage. Do you know how to do
some Marketing? You got to go out there and do some marketing for
yourself. Do an outreach, get to know more gals. Groom yourself,
exercise to improve your physique and confidence.
If you are really that desperate, look up the job ads, there are
job offers to China, Vietnam and Cambodia. Go there, find work and
get to know the local gals there.
Patience is the key.
