Ok. First thing
first... if ur young like around 16 or below then i suggest u dont
read this because ur too young for this topic... GO STUDY!! Then
come read this once ur 18 or something.
ok now lets get to
relationship,
1) - Calling it
Quits
I'm talking about
relationship that are not working out. If u make it through 6
months and so on and everything is smooth then u guys started going
on this bumpy road on a relationship like disagree one another from
time to time and something just doesn't feel right but u can fix
that by maybe going to counselling or just sit down together and
speak honestly to each other and LISTEN of what u two have to say.
BUT... if u only make it like only 2-3 weeks or 1-2 months with a
person and things started to falling apart and arguing every single
day. Then i recommend u move on. Forget about her/him. really
=.=
2) - Dress a part
Ok for u guys wearing
those big ass T-shirts all the way down to your knees or those
tight ass jeans... THAT AIN'T COOL. Wear something that fits u. U
have to wear something that shows the lady what u have offer. Like
for example, we girls when look at guys with such skinny jeans or
too over-dressed like wearing a suit just for roaming around the
city is ridiculous. Wear something that we will go like "oh thats
nice.. he has a nice body, presentable" blah blah blah and all
that. Because come on, u guys like to show off with your
appearance.. same for us, we like to show off our appearance too.
Now one thing, we girls like to judge. Listen guys... we girls
JUDGE guys... u have to realise we judge hard. So u guys have to
look nice. If her girl friends saw u and talking about your
appearance or some shit to her, u ain't gonna last long. Trust me.
She may start to having a problems with u. So please... maintain
because eyes are everywhere once u step foot out from your
house.
3) - GET THEM OUT
Ok. This is
ESPECIALLY for guys. U guys need to take girls out often. NO JOKE.
u have to start taking your girl out. I know some of u guys maybe
dont like to walk but u have to force yourself to like it because u
can't have her keep on bugging u all the time through sms or phone
or go over to your house. We girls like to travel and do things. u
guys dont have to take us out on an exotic places everytime.. u
know budget and stuff and we understand but that doesn't we have to
stay at home. Walk near the beach at east coast or changi.. pulau
ubin takes only idk... 4-5 dollars only. I know some of u guys will
said to me "but i cant ask her out .. i dont have any money.. i
cant afford how?" THEN GO HAVE A JOB dont focus on a girl yet.
'WHAT? kns.. im too young to get a job la!!" THEN your ass are too
young to read this topic. PEACE AND GET OUT >:O
4) - BREATH!
yes. i dont know why
i have to go here but u guys and girls. really... brush up. Girls
with pretty face and slender body and guys with those nice abs and
good looking face but once u all started to talk.. damn, all your
breath is like a rat died in your mouth. U people have to brush
your teeth... your tongue... eat minty sweets. seriously =.=
5) - Dont be so
Detailed
This is to the girls
especially. "u know my boyfriend didnt notice that i wear this mini
skirts.. and he also didnt notice that i paint my fingernails in
pink glitter.... i think he's cheating on me. He's with the other
girl.. i hate him" seriously girls.. STOP IT!. Those guys mind have
to be in 10 other different things. He didnt see it or he maybe
didnt realise it. Or maybe he dont need to see all that because u
the only one is what he is concern about.. not on every specific
detail u put on your image. It's really stupid that u girls are
complaining over such small things and the guys dont even realise
it. And your relationship are just getting worser so please stop
thinking about that. IF he forgots about your birthday, annivesary
or something big that u make a right choice leaving him because
ain't no men will forgot something that big. Get over it.... guys
are sometimes often stress. Because they got army, jobs,
projects.... u girls have to understand. I know i did.
6) - KEPOH!!!
Stop being so nosey.
Guys and girls... are so nosey. For example, Guys using his phone
and texting here and there and laugh to themselves.. just because
his friends making a joke and u girls will all be like "what the
heck is he smiling about?". When he go to somewhere urgent and
leave his hp, u girls will become curious and starts to take his
phone and see what is he texting about and who is he texting to.
Then when he came back and saw u creeping on his hp. He will get
pissed. They will be like thinking of locking up their hp and u
girls dont want that.. it will be more suspicious. In order to have
a smooth relationship, u have to trust each other. They need to
have a certain amount of privacy.. thats why emails have passwords.
They need to have a privacy. U can't just breathe everywhere on
their necks. They need space. Relationship wont go well if this
continue.
okie im done. I can
post more if this helps u ^^. Tell me if this helps u or what. It's
just an advice from me... seeing lots of relationship downfall
lately so i might as well help out. xD
Yer advice is nothing new.
Everybody oledi knows tat..
