Ok. First thing first... if ur young like around 16 or below then i
suggest u dont read this because ur too young for this topic... GO
STUDY!! Then come read this once ur 18 or something.
ok now lets get to relationship,
1) - Calling it Quits
I'm talking about relationship that are not working out. If u make
it through 6 months and so on and everything is smooth then u guys
started going on this bumpy road on a relationship like disagree
one another from time to time and something just doesn't feel right
but u can fix that by maybe going to counselling or just sit down
together and speak honestly to each other and LISTEN of what u two
have to say. BUT... if u only make it like only 2-3 weeks or 1-2
months with a person and things started to falling apart and
arguing every single day. Then i recommend u move on. Forget about
her/him. really =.=
2) - Dress a part
Ok for u guys wearing those big ass T-shirts all the way down to
your knees or those tight ass jeans... THAT AIN'T COOL. Wear
something that fits u. U have to wear something that shows the lady
what u have offer. Like for example, we girls when look at guys
with such skinny jeans or too over-dressed like wearing a suit just
for roaming around the city is ridiculous. Wear something that we
will go like "oh thats nice.. he has a nice body, presentable" blah
blah blah and all that. Because come on, u guys like to show off
with your appearance.. same for us, we like to show off our
appearance too. Now one thing, we girls like to judge. Listen
guys... we girls JUDGE guys... u have to realise we judge hard. So
u guys have to look nice. If her girl friends saw u and talking
about your appearance or some shit to her, u ain't gonna last long.
Trust me. She may start to having a problems with u. So please...
maintain because eyes are everywhere once u step foot out from your
house.
3) - GET THEM OUT
Ok. This is ESPECIALLY for guys. U guys need to take girls out
often. NO JOKE. u have to start taking your girl out. I know some
of u guys maybe dont like to walk but u have to force yourself to
like it because u can't have her keep on bugging u all the time
through sms or phone or go over to your house. We girls like to
travel and do things. u guys dont have to take us out on an exotic
places everytime.. u know budget and stuff and we understand but
that doesn't we have to stay at home. Walk near the beach at east
coast or changi.. pulau ubin takes only idk... 4-5 dollars only. I
know some of u guys will said to me "but i cant ask her out .. i
dont have any money.. i cant afford how?" THEN GO HAVE A JOB dont
focus on a girl yet. 'WHAT? kns.. im too young to get a job la!!"
THEN your ass are too young to read this topic. PEACE AND GET OUT
>:O
4) - BREATH!
yes. i dont know why i have to go here but u guys and girls.
really... brush up. Girls with pretty face and slender body and
guys with those nice abs and good looking face but once u all
started to talk.. damn, all your breath is like a rat died in your
mouth. U people have to brush your teeth... your tongue... eat
minty sweets. seriously =.=
5) - Dont be so Detailed
This is to the girls especially. "u know my boyfriend didnt notice
that i wear this mini skirts.. and he also didnt notice that i
paint my fingernails in pink glitter.... i think he's cheating on
me. He's with the other girl.. i hate him" seriously girls.. STOP
IT!. Those guys mind have to be in 10 other different things. He
didnt see it or he maybe didnt realise it. Or maybe he dont need to
see all that because u the only one is what he is concern about..
not on every specific detail u put on your image. It's really
stupid that u girls are complaining over such small things and the
guys dont even realise it. And your relationship are just getting
worser so please stop thinking about that. IF he forgots about your
birthday, annivesary or something big that u make a right choice
leaving him because ain't no men will forgot something that big.
Get over it.... guys are sometimes often stress. Because they got
army, jobs, projects.... u girls have to understand. I know i
did.
6) - KEPOH!!!
Stop being so nosey. Guys and girls... are so nosey. For example,
Guys using his phone and texting here and there and laugh to
themselves.. just because his friends making a joke and u girls
will all be like "what the heck is he smiling about?". When he go
to somewhere urgent and leave his hp, u girls will become curious
and starts to take his phone and see what is he texting about and
who is he texting to. Then when he came back and saw u creeping on
his hp. He will get pissed. They will be like thinking of locking
up their hp and u girls dont want that.. it will be more
suspicious. In order to have a smooth relationship, u have to trust
each other. They need to have a certain amount of privacy.. thats
why emails have passwords. They need to have a privacy. U can't
just breathe everywhere on their necks. They need space.
Relationship wont go well if this continue.
okie im done. I can post more if this helps u ^^. Tell me if this
helps u or what. It's just an advice from me... seeing lots of
relationship downfall lately so i might as well help out. xD
N1! i maybe a little too young for this, but make quite alot of
sense lehh (Y)
