In response to Hwaimeng - For my
case, ( I am not sure about these china people working in singapore
stuff), the girl seems to be working all along when she is in
Singapore at various jobs. She is on some visa which needs renewal
plus her parents are actually also in Singapore living with sister
husband family(yup, its squeezing in her house I heard). She seems
like staying In singapore in pernament basis from what i gather.
Personally, if it is like yours where the girl is on off come here
come there, I think i cannot accept also.
She is not materialistic type i see,
because the mannerism cannot faked one. Another thing i like about
her although she is from China is that at least she can understand
my written english, though she did not speak english in that
outing. She can read english in general but not high level or rich
vocabulary like Singaporean girls. She can read out english but i
guesss its not smooth english.
She is also polite and demure type,
so I am not afraid of stories of PRC ladies who are scheming or
murderous type. In our conversation, she said she dun mind public
transport and she is not spendthrift. She once also asked :”so what
age are you planning to get married?” and i answered to me marriage
is not compulsory thing. She did not react
adversly and thinks that nowadays
people are more liberal and also not insistence on marriage.
Thus, i found her thinking to
be more liberal and understanding. However, i also guessed that for
demure and filal lady like her, she would not probably be with
people like me who does not choose the conventional route. But,
fuck lah... go one step and see how she will behave lah.
She is also understanding and
not materialistic because during that meeting, we eat two times and
both is foodcourt stuff which she seems okay about it. I paid for
meals and she got thanked me.. she also did not seem to insist that
i should pay kind of mentality.
At this very early stage, i
feel that she is quite good and decent girl to commit a long term
relationship, but have worries about cultural differences. Her
family finacial status is so so. Sister and hubby earn decent
amount but got family and also spend well also, so like not saving
alot.
I primarily concern about she
and me, which i think should be the case, on whether we both fit or
now, left right center bottom. If fit, other problems can be
solved. There maybe hiccups which cos cause sudden rupture to the
relationship and i am mentally prepared for it. Anyway, lets just
wait and see. Right now, despite not being prepared for such
international relationship , espeically for a dummy/noob like me in
relationship, I got a strong suspicion she fits me rather well
based on the above observations.
Above all, I also find it
interesting for 2 people from different background to get
together(being positive here), and sort of cherish such
opportunity. Before meeting her, my belief is actually preference
for singaporean girls because better to have more similarities and
allows for smoother communication. Lastly, I am not the rich person
at all.
