I'm quite amuse by the fact that you seem to be rather focus on
the physical issues in a R/S. That really sounds immature and lack
of deeper thought. I would smack the persons behind and bring
him/her on a tour of geylang at night to show them that physical
intimacy could be bought with a few mere dollars.
There should be a lot more thought put into the beginning of a
R/S. Most of it would be focus on commitment. It is with upmost
importance that you recognise the fact that once you are in a r/s,
you are to be committed to that someone. You give up the perks of
singlehood for the exculsivity of being in a r/s. Some people like
the idea and some do not, and thus there is no right or wrong, just
different needs.
For me, sex is a must. I understand myself and know that I have
a high sex drive. To me, a r/s without sex will most probably only
lead to disaster. Of course, I'm open to objections but I will move
on to someone else. For those who disagree with what I have said, I
can only tell you that I dun disagree with you but you are just not
me.
