Y do u want a offical relationship

[J]erry SG

hi guys and gals

i am just wondering... why do a guy and girl decide to go into a offical relationship?

i mean... lets say... u and this guy/gal really can communicate very well, u guys are happy with each other's company.. to the extend of falling for each other.. even confessed to each other. but why cant the relationship status remain as 'best friends' status, but must move on to other level 'BGR' and start to call each other bf/gf?

my guess is that with this offical BGR, u guys can start touching each other(like hold hands, hug, kiss etc). am i right to say that? just asking around for more views on this issue =)

untill now i only got 1 ex gf.. the most is hold hands.. thats all

candiz SG

You sure sound little to me, at least you sound inexperience in the ways of the world.

thx for your advice, but I have met and gone out with enough guys. if u are really as experienced as u claim to be, then you should surely know that:

"To me, a r/s without sex will most probably only lead to disaster." => this is a major turn-off for gals

Callan SG

thx for your advice, but I have met and gone out with enough guys. if u are really as experienced as u claim to be, then you should surely know that:

"To me, a r/s without sex will most probably only lead to disaster." => this is a major turn-off for gals

It sure has turned you off, but at least I know there are other who aren't. An most importantly at least I'm frank and not some hyprocrite.

fairlady_xoxo SG

But not all relationships were built on lust...some were also pure love?

Sex comes when you're both ready and mentally prepared for the consequences and that your relationship has stablized such that there's no worry of infidelity...but of course that's what i always felt sex should be based on...

Callan SG

But not all relationships were built on lust...some were also pure love?

None of my relationships in the later part of my life were built base on lust. They were all base on love and commitment. There are some where I was two-timed, so I would not say the other party base the relationship on the same values as I do.

To me, sex is part of commitment. It is my other way of showing commitment and saying "I love you". It is also a way of showing my most inner self to the person that I truly love. I dun share this part with anyone else.

Believe it or not, my R/S motto has gone from "I want a pretty girlfriend." when I was 12 to "The beginning of a R/S is the beginning of a marriage." now.

candiz SG

It sure has turned you off, but at least I know there are other who aren't. An most importantly at least I'm frank and not some hyprocrite.

well, at least that i gotta give you credit for

there are certainly those who aren't, but i can assure you these gals are the minority and quite rare

Callan SG

well, at least that i gotta give you credit for

there are certainly those who aren't, but i can assure you these gals are the minority and quite rare

Thank you.

But if you have seen what I have seen, I'm sure you will not be assured anymore. There are many guys like me, and they are still fine young men.

p.s. not to say I'm young though.

candiz SG

Thank you.

But if you have seen what I have seen, I'm sure you will not be assured anymore. There are many guys like me, and they are still fine young men.

p.s. not to say I'm young though.

I know there are many guys like you, I have met so many~

I will juz choose the guy who isn't like that (as with most of my gal frens), while the "many fine young men" like you can continue waiting

Callan SG

I know there are many guys like you, I have met so many~

I will juz choose the guy who isn't like that (as with most of my gal frens), while the "many fine young men" like you can continue waiting

Thank you for the rejection, it is much appreciated.

Next please.

candiz SG

Thank you for the rejection, it is much appreciated.

Next please.

smudgebaby SG

reminds me when i motorcycle days... well.. brief anyways..

faster u drive.. the tighter she holds u...

he he

well reminds me of current Mazda days. lol

Yours is the girl touching you. For me is using one hand to drive and the other hand to feel her thighs. Sometimes touching the *ahem*.

smudgebaby SG

I know there are many guys like you, I have met so many~

I will juz choose the guy who isn't like that (as with most of my gal frens), while the "many fine young men" like you can continue waiting

don't guai lan to the gentleman lar.

I'm sure you're the materialistic type based your sarcastic reply.

Anyhoo, you won't even stand a quarter of a chance to get screwed in my mazda.

So bitch off for your sacarsm.

Hwaimeng SG

office relation is messy

when u quarrel then u know Y most ppl dont like to involve in office relationship

its happen to me be4

can tell u

when couple quarrel and work in same office , its best that 1 of them take leave .

candiz SG

ya, i noe Callan is quite a gentleman~

but i can see someone else who is not

btw, i don't choose guys based on what they drive, or if they even drive at all

Hwaimeng SG

ya, i noe Callan is quite a gentleman~

but i can see someone else who is not

btw, i don't choose guys based on what they drive, or if they even drive at all

can i join in the fun ???

but i dont drive at all ...... i take bus everyday ............

candiz SG

can i join in the fun ???

but i dont drive at all ...... i take bus everyday ............

wat fun u wanna join??

YayaKheo SG

Single better laaaaa, has freeeedom

miNty` SG

my guess is that with this offical BGR, u guys can start touching each other(like hold hands, hug, kiss etc). am i right to say that? just asking around for more views on this issue =)

is to announce to everyone that "HEY, this is my guy / gal..hands off pls.."

though there are still lotsa bastards / b1tches out there who will ignore this unspoken rule =D

Callan SG

is to announce to everyone that "HEY, this is my guy / gal..hands off pls.."

though there are still lotsa bastards / b1tches out there who will ignore this unspoken rule =D

We call that Marking your property?

Evangel SG

Hey who is trying to snatch away my candiz? haha...

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