None of my relationships in the later part of my life were built
base on lust. They were all base on love and commitment. There are
some where I was two-timed, so I would not say the other party base
the relationship on the same values as I do.
To me, sex is part of commitment. It is my other way of showing
commitment and saying "I love you". It is also a way of showing my
most inner self to the person that I truly love. I dun share this
part with anyone else.
Believe it or not, my R/S motto has gone from "I want a pretty
girlfriend." when I was 12 to "The beginning of a R/S is the
beginning of a marriage." now.
Callan cheers to you bro. 
