Originally posted by Yunhaier:
If you were to break them down, its not about the
woman - [b]its about the man himself. A singaporean man is
generally a good catch, therefore he would be targeted from all
form of seduction.
I) He is working overseas - psychologically, he 'left' home and
seemed free again. If the relationship is a suppressed, possessive
kind back at home - he is at high risk to certain laws of
seductions. Dis-satisfaction in marriage post deep problem as
well.
II) Man that cannot handle woman at similarly level. This is
especially true for male chauvinist who needs woman to be 'lower'
than them. Apparantly, woman in China seemingly allow them the span
of control and this fuel ego and empower seduction.
Man are generally vulnerable to art of seduction of three channels
- visual, vocal and fantasy. If he is unable to pierce through
their charm, he will fall for them. No one is completely immune to
seduction, you can only understand how it works through experience
and wisdom and work around it. You want to prevent them? Strengthen
your marriage and make them well. CloUdiSm Remix III: You cannot
stop external factors, but you can control internal environment. If
you have did what you could and things still happen, this man may
not be the one. 
Cheers [/b]
Yup, you talk sense 
I am not denying at all that men contributed most part to this
problem. What I am wondering is that, I know many more other people
that work in different country, Malaysia, Thailand, Japan, Korea,
Taiwan, etc. Most of them I know don't end up in divorce, well,
many of them have flings/gf, undeniable, but many that go to China
end up in divorce instead.
Like what you say, seduction, is definitely part of it. Allowing
themselves to be 'lower' than men. These are the factors I wanna
explore in this topic, is China women better at this, and if so,
what makes them different/better.
I definitely know they are much more eager, aggressive &
determined. Some of them may do anything just to get out of the
country. I was hoping that those who have more experience, who
perhaps stay in China before, with the real observation can shed
some lights.
