Originally posted by NuLife:
I'm educated w foriegn degree... above average looking..
good career prospect, been to china, and around the world...
and Now Im thinking I wud rather look for a China or Malaysian
GF/Wife...
I tell why:
1) Singapore women not as pretty (yet so dao)...
Being pretty is the number one aspect in choosing for men...
then comes others.... (its in our genes)
In spore, finding someone good looking is already diff,
yet those who r only average looking also so dao...
(ok... may those who r pretty n not dao r already taken)
In China, anyhow choose also wont regret... since most r quite
pretty...
One China fren once tell me she know why so many spore guys
single...
cos spore gals r ugly... as a matter of fact i agree w
her...
I can be meek and humble .. if the guy is [b] rich enough .
China girls not so dao when they go for singaporeans
mah....singaporeans to them quite rich and their ticket out of
china.
2) Spore women liks to be pampered, too demanding..
too 'modern'.. n some r also not independent enuf...
..n adores the western culture/value too much...
these r jus a nice words... i say they think too highly of
themselves...
Living n growing up in china is not lik spore.
Its a more competitive, complex n real society.
It makes the people/women more independent, capable...less
sheltered.
Sporeans/women r jus too sheltered n wants to be impressed even
more by men.
Of course, survival of the fittest - when females find mates -
they want the best , strongest and those with the potential to
provide. Why marry a good for nothing? Of course we have people who
married for love and then the guy becomes a leech when he has no
job , then they divorce.
Everyone wants a stable relationship . I don't want a leech - asian
or angmoh or china . I pick and choose because I can.
3) Its more exciting, more exhilarting to know someone whos
from a foriegn country.
In short, spore women not as pretty, yet so dao, demanding...
how do u wan a man here to choose if he has a choice?
extra:
I have lots of frens/colls from China... and I certainly do not
think
our China frens deserve the kind of society accessment from
sporeans...
in terms of either work or women... they r frenly, generous,
geniune people.
It only makes me feel that spore people r lik the 'frog in the
well'...
once u hav been to china/ard the world... u wil see that
sporeans/women r so narrow minded n dao...
Once a sporean lady fren told me tat china women has no 'qi
zhi'..
...well i think spore women's 'qi zhi' is more associated w
'dao-ness'
Thou i must agree that in terms of communications, its not as
easy..
since we r brought up in mixed eng/ch environment. So our
command
of chinese is limited...
But then.. i think communicating w dao spore women is even more
diff...;p
must learn to pamper/impress them... not my cup of tea...
u can say it seemed lik male chavinism,
but i think e problem is e women who thinks so highly of themselve
first.
When I lik/love someone, the method of expessions wil not be one
of
superficial 'pampering/ impressing'...
ps: in order not to upset anyone.. when i say
sporean, or china...etc .. i refer generally to most of them....not
all...
so spore women... go on n think tat men cannot handle u...
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Well , let's see who will be used up then 
. At least some Singaporean girls are independent and
working . But actually i can agree with the exhilarating part of
meeting people from a foreign culture - I have a good friend who is
a native american , a cherokee . Exotic , good looking plus
educated and with a good job......too bad he will stay in USA when
he is done seeing the world because he is proud of his tribal
heritage.
