haa... Is love-making skills really so important for to
women
in a truthful relationship?
Thou Id met some women who r quite dead in bed on the other
hand.
I wud expect such to be more important to men than women.
To me, its not too important in a truthful long-term
relationship.
I really question that it is not important in a truthful
long-term relationship. However, I guess it depends on an
individuals sexual drive and needs as well. If sex is not
important, you won't see the increment in guys and gals cheating on
each other because their partner is not satisfying them, and I'm
talking about married couples here.
haa. i pity u... no offence ;p but i guess these r minor things
or aint they?
Thou im definitely not lik tat, im thinkg:
If these r little things women can do to make some men happy, why
not?
Lik u said, its a 2-way give n take thing. it takes little to make
a man happy.
Many men try hard to make their loved one happy,
if it only takes abit on women side, why not?
Minor things so why complain that the girls here are not gentle
yada yada and the list goes on enough 
I'm complaining here because its one-track. Maybe I didn't make
myself clear enough. Like I said if it was 2-way, I wouldn't mind,
but trying to get them to get me a glass of water at times is as
good as getting them to scale Mount Everest for me.
It takes a big from the girl's side, so does it from the guys.
Honestly I really don't want a doormat for a boyfriend. Serve me
hand and food, work hard and feed me so I can stay at home.
What I'm looking for is a partnership in a relationship, which I've
found 
so far. Like I said its my experiences and yes
that guy is a Singaporean and no its not the money bit.
On the manipulative part I agree, but i believe its only
minority.
Being manupilative seemed to prop up alot esp for
shanghainese,
even my china frens say its been historically so.
I guess its only so bcos their society is more complex.
But I still believe its minority. Tats only a few millions out of
1.2 billion
Theres so many others from lesser known provinces, cities n
countrysides.
Thou i must say im surprised by ur frens feedback on the dao
part.
So far, on my experiences, its been alrite.
I 've known some rich ladies n some equal level colls, frens from
china,
definitly not after my money, im not rich at all, but they r far
from dao.
Let me guess, ur frens r expats, rich, tried to pick up ladies at
clubs..
ladies there r always 'dao' no matter where... tats their
definition
of dao= rejection
Well, the next complaint was how they carry themselves. I guess
that will improve. I have nothing against the Chinese and I don't
see Singaporeans as being superior to them, because from what I see
from the Singaporean society is that everyone is so pampered its
really worrying as it affects the work attitudes so badly! I guess
it will also boil over to relationships.
Expats as in Chinese expats but not Singaporean or expats of other
nationalities. No, they are not talking about clubs only.
As for daoness...
thou in simplistic terms some may associate tat w rejections...
Sad to say, most guys associate it to rejection. 
Ladies, tell us wat u look for in a men...
Im sure it will always turn out to b a long long list.
Whereas if a guy were to tell u wat he looks for in a
women...
it wil b a simple list.
I didn't think my list was that long 
However, I think my fiance puts it very nicely.
" I love you for who you are, and not what I want you to be"
and yes, I agree with him wholeheartedly.
