There will always be people from 18 years old brats to 88 years
old farts who are all out to make your blood boil It would be
better to realize early that we have a choice not to be angered by
them and to engage them in the most non-destructive way (to
ourselves) as possible.
While we other people for making callous remarks. Many people had
their life tough but they did not whine.
To quote from a US War Veteran, a mixed native-black soldier who
faced discrimination in the ranks and war despite risking his life
for country in actual combat
I guess life is how you perceive it.
And my grandfather told me when I was quite young that life is a
war that everyone loses.
So you have to enjoy the scirmishes, and you have to enjoy the
battles on your way to losing the war.
And it took me quite a few years to understand that he was saying
life isn't easy: in the first place you're going to die in the long
run, so you better enjoy all the problems you have.
There are people who told me in situations in a lot of times in
different places where everybody thought it was pretty bad, and I
say hey it'll be a better day tommorrow or we'll have lost the
war.
If you survive unitl tomorrow, you've won the battle. So, you smile
and go home.