Singapore man. Go vietnam find bride or marry workpermit

last SG · 2005-04-16T00:09:12+00:00

Who is blaming the Singapore woman for high standard ? No one is ! It's their choice. But why not get something when you are young ? In your 30. Right time...

armygirl SG

yes, maybe tis is wat skyline is saying but then again, maybe has not met the right one yet, not all singaporean girls are like that

you just never know whether these gals after getting their Permanent residency and jobs will later dump the man, remember the kalimantin bride who said that her husband's hse is small and he got no car...u call these gals down to earth

true, not all are like that, but who wld really marry for love, all these gals are also looking for a way out of their poverty...

dragg SG

22 yr old for a 40 yr old? i pity the girl.

elindra SG

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What I find most sad is that the happiness is so short-lived. The guy is old and is the sole breadwinner, and usually they have no insurance and minimal savings. I wonder what happens if something happens to the guy. His wife and kids will really suffer.

seancannot SG

Originally posted by elindra:

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[quote]What I find most sad is that the happiness is so short-lived.

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Happiness is transient as we all know .. nor lasting beauty .. remember the Sovil Titus commercial 'bu zai hu tian chan ti jiu, zi zai hu chen gin yong yu'

The guy is old and is the sole breadwinner, and usually they have no insurance and minimal savings. I wonder what happens if something happens to the guy. His wife and kids will really suffer.

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Not true .. this guy is stable in someway .. have his own flat and alr set aside some saving... (he also inherited some money from Father .. Lucky guy). they may not be able to leave luxuriously but at least make ends meet .. he is much better than one of my gal fren ex hubby who is a 28 yrs old alr.. yet no stable job since ROD .... doesnt support his 2 kids and flirt and fools around with women (real life example.. i dun understand but actually happened in real life ... this guy who is a bum... still can get those young and pretty girls.. now his new girlfren is a sweet young under grad ..) my fren and his ex hubby they just got separated last year.. the guy happily signed on the deed!

elindra SG

Originally posted by seancannot:
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[b]Not true .. this guy is stable in someway .. have his own flat and alr set aside some saving... (he also inherited some money from Father .. Lucky guy). they may not be able to leave luxuriously but at least make ends meet .. he is much better than one of my gal fren ex hubby who is a 28 yrs old alr.. yet no stable job since ROD .... doesnt support his 2 kids and flirt and fools around with women (real life example.. i dun understand but actually happened in real life ... this guy who is a bum... still can get those young and pretty girls.. now his new girlfren is a sweet young under grad ..) my fren and his ex hubby they just got separated last year.. the guy happily signed on the deed![/b]

This is only an example. I'm speaking in general. How many others in the same position can say the same, and how many others can inherit money from their own man. Also don't forget that most of those foreign brides don't work when they marry these SG guys. How long can they survive on the savings if they were to stay in Singapore. Do they have the means to get a job if they can no longer depend on their husband.

Of course there will be young bums, They are in every country. Just imagine that these young bums become old bums and get a foreign wife. Won't this foreign girl be much much worse off?

dragg SG

you cant compare case to case. being better than someone dont make one good, it only makes one better. you get my point?

the difference between absolute and relative.

seancannot SG

Agreed !! nothing is absolute and everythings are relative .. just quoting some real life example I came across... not pin pointing which is better or that is worse that kind of thing.... there too many permutation in our life.. Marriage failed even two highly successful and stable individual conjugate...

Just that we have to brave and prepare ourselves for the worst ... my ex surbodinate for instance ...dun you think its take a lot of courage for him to marry the China bride ...knowing all the talks that will go behind his back.. once you make the decision dun look back and things may just work out right !

Guess I lost my ex cos I wasnt brave enough then!

armygirl SG

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i agree with dragg, its a case to case basis
got one old man went to marry a young gal fm vietnam still must teach her to cook instant noodles with luncheon meat, end up he has to serve her

but wat happens if the poor man dies and left the gal with nothing and if got kids lagi worse, later become social problems

really every case is different and we wont really noe the outcome

skyline63 SG

I tell you. Like Dragg like is simple.

Live with his friends. Drinking coffee at KOPO shop. Then....... brag about all the girls he chase. And still finding new one at the age of 45. Then suddenly 50 years old loh.

Jealous of his friends finding vietnam wife. He grumble like the whole world is mad. Then finally broke his heart and died in the grave. Burnt to ash and sent to the temples. Put at one side loh. All stack up like don't know what ? Like a store room ! That is what I call loh. Hahaha!!!!

10 years still alone and forever alone. Grumbing in the internet. As there is no friends. All his ex-friends are having good life with their kids and him ? I don't know. Who cares ? Right ?

Vietnam girls don't know. Malaysia no girls huh ? Thailand no girls ? China no girls ? Aust no girls ? Only Singapore got girls huh ?

skyline63 SG

seancannot

Marry China bride is a good thing. What make the different between a China woman and a Singapore woman ? There is sure some differents but in the end. It's the same. More and more man finding foreign wife. Because they find there is more advantage then disadvantage.

Everyone have ex-gf. So what ? I heard from a AUST man who told me.

"GirlFriends you also need back-up. Because you never know when they going to break. So get two or more at the same time. Get to know more girls ! There is plently out there !"

Like dragg with is 40. Still thinking what he is going to do the next 10 years. hahahahah!!!!!!!!! 50 years old retired loh. What else ? Company retrench. Find new job. Cannot get better pay one. So.......... just work and live for another day. Until the grave come. Alone that is the worse. Usually, Single wake up when they lose their jobs and cannot find new one that same pay or better pay. They found they are alone. Because most of the time are fill up in work. And they forget to fill people up in their home. Then they decided to have a hobbies ! Haahaa!!!! collecting post card, Stamps , And......... don't know what loh.

seancannot SG

Guess the main adv of having a China wife is when you need to relocate to China, all the contacts are there .. I had two fren who married China girls but their marriage failed.. but guess what!!! is not the girls fault its the man they strayed.. ended in divorce..

Sometime I am very angry... got this ex fren mine... I know of his wife ...but not pretty but at least caring to his husband and kids.. but even work to supplement family income.. but this heartless guy went to look for call girls and finally found himself a younger and more attrative SG girl fren then divorce his wife .. she left for China heart broken w/o her kids ..dun want to describe my ex fren in detail here .. but he is a piece of shit.. dun even deserve a place in this world...

How can this happen .. but it really happened!

Axelheat755 SG

if not den why do u think u are here?

and the 1st one to reply some more Twisted Evil Laughing Mr. Green

iveco SG

And China mei got all the bad press each time. But 90 per cent of them are dodgy, to be honest.

elindra SG

If everyone thinks like this Australian man you know, that will be a sad day, because, plus if this theory is to be put to test, it will work as well. Example if this was said by an Australian girl:

"Boyfriends you also need back-up. Because you never know when they going to break. So get two or more at the same time. Get to know more guys! There is plenty out there!"

What's good for the goose is good for the gander these days and this is not only applicable in Singapore.

As well, if you need back-up, it only proves to show that you lack self-confidence, there is no love only lust in the relationship and you need an ego booster.

dragg SG

either you have an amazing imagination or you are actually talking about yourself!!

dragg SG

why do you keep using me as an example? are you obsessed with me? or is it because you cannot accept the fact that i dont believe in your s h i t?

elindra SG

Laughing

Actually, I think he is.

He seems to want to undertake the duty of persuading you to get married.

seancannot SG

Getting married is sometimes not a choice.. Guess the fortunate ones can acutally choose.. while I am being choosed.

Not everyone need to marry.. to get on with their life.. so long as one is happy with single hood I think he /she should stay that way.. sometimes I thot if I could overcome this loneliness and yearning for the other half .. maybe singlehood is not too bad afterall.. maybe one day till my dying day..

diggo SG

IMHO....

Marrying is a personal choice... and so is divorcing/spouse nationality etc etc etc. At the end of the day, it is your life tat u need 2 account 2 urself.

By all account, wat happened in SGP.. wife leaving husband/ husband living wives for younger gals... guess wat, I bet tat it happen in all other countries as well.

Look closer at other countries sites... u definitely will find more sob stories around.

Juz remember .. there is always cause and effect

skyline63 SG

Dragg like that one lah. I told you already. Another few years. He will collect everything like stamp, Torch light, lighter, Money, coins etc. To keep himself busy. And you know what is the most interesting thing.

He think all this is going to worth something for another 30 years. When I am pretty sure he won't live that long. Hahahah!!!!!

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