Someone call the CDC, we have a possible Mad Cow Diesease
patient by the name of JusticeLegal.
Isn't it obvious that men should pay for the household expenses?
This is their duty as part of the husband and wife team.
I could also argue about the fact that duty of women as part of
the husband and wife team is to do housework and rear the kids, but
that would just be a statement that reeks of chauvinism and
YOUR kind of
thinking, you racist sexist bigot.
FACE THE FARKING FACTS, in this day and age, both husband and wife
have a part to play in all of these activities.
Unreasonable people like you expect men to adopt a modern attitude
towards marriage by shouldering their fair share of the workload
such as helping out around the house and taking care of the
children so that their wives can enjoy a full time career, while
insisting on the other hand that the husbands be solely responsible
for taking care of the household expenses (insurance, taxes, etc.)
while their wives keep the money.
The door swings both ways. If you demand that the man keep to his
traditional role of being the bread winner of the household, then
it is perfectly fair to expect the woman to confine herself to
being a housewife and give up her career (because by your wonderful
logic, if men MUST be the breadwinner, then women MUST be in charge
of keeping the house clean.)
Everyone else except you knows that this is impractical. Everyone
knows that men can't keep on expecting that their wives take on a
full time job as their housekeeper. Both must do their duty as
such, in as many ways as they can, or else hire a maid.
Likewise everyone knows that working women can't expect men to pay
all the expenses, because in Singapore one job alone is insufficent
to support a family. If the couple are both working, they must both
contribute to the upkeep of the family by paying (in proportion to
their salaries) an equal amount.
If unreasonable, blind individuals like you expect your spouse to
be responsible for household expenses AND take care of the house
and children so that he/she can shake leg, then you have a big
surprise coming.
And with the poor spending habits of the Singaporean male, it is
well justified for us women to keep a secret slash in case you
weaklings run to vietnam
Singgapore men who run to Vietnam do so because of one reason
alone: to get away from you. 
