Like you say, it's a mutual thing in this society. There are bad
customers, there are also bad servers. it does not mean that by
paying for your food, paying service charge means you can start
abusing people who serve you. From the way you replied, it's either
you had really bad experience, which in this case, i feel that you
really deserve it. Or you were once a server who was abused that
feel that it's only right that you feel that you should be pampered
once you pay.
Haha... kindly get off you're high horse man
... I once helped
out in the porridge stall of a friend's father for several weeks
during school holidays... wiping tables, clearing bowls, taking
orders etc.... and I didn't even get paid! (I did get free leftover
porridge though
) But the customers
were generally quite nice and friendly, and I don't recall any
incidents where I had to argue with anyone.
I know how tough and filthy a job in the F&B industry can be,
but unlike you, I don't take it as an excuse to be rude to
customers. Despite having to do some really nasty things because of
the customers (like clearing bowls with half chewed pork leftovers
) I don't hold it
against them. Its your job, so do it.
Every industry has it's own bad apples... People who work in
F&B for years, mostly have a passion for what they are doing.
We are expected to face all kinds of ppl from all walks of life.
And when we serve ppl like you, who thinks you are the king because
you pay for our job and service, we gladly accept it as it's a
society default.
With the kind of service customers normally get in Singapore,
you expect me to believe that har?
BULLSHIT!!!! 
Maybe one of the reason why Service standards are dropping in
S'pore is partly thanks to you this kind of customers. Even a good
server comes along, no one can tahan being treated like dirt- low
life animal.
Okay then ... explain to me why our SIA girls give such lan
service to Singaporeans and such good service to ang mohs.
You know that even in the high class places like Wisma Atria and
Takashimaya, the service there is still like shit? Despite taking
all kinds of lessons and whatnot.... the people there won't even
smile at you! Basic courtesy also don't have.
Next time when you walk into a restaurant and start thinking you
call the shots because you are throwing in your dime, flashing your
cards and demand service, cursing for whatever reasons, just think
if you can do a better job if you are in our position.
Ok lah... I admit... never had to serve a guy with gold card...
only uncles and
aunties....
But so what? If a customer curse at you, just reply camly and
nicely, like they do in other countries, and the guy will be
ashamed into shuting up! Or get you manager lah, he has more
experience in this kind of matter
It seems that Singaporeans in service industry couldn't be bothered
with learning how to deal with unreasonable customers... 
If you can, then why not join the F&B to make your huge
difference since you have the tolerance of being treated like dirt,
forego your dignity, pride and not expect to be regarded as
human?
As i have said... done that already... this is Asian society
ok... just accept the fact that people will look down on
you...
We would welcome you and learn from you. Or NOT JUST KEEP YOUR
TRAP SHUT! Mad
Yes you chee bye kia... LEARN FROM MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

Firstly, we ppl are not arragont bastards. we have parents and
family too.
haha.... ok ok i was wrong... most people in the service
industry are not 'arragont' bastards... but you are not one of them

So your point is that ppl who work in the service industry are
expected not to be treated like human beings???
ARBUTHEN!!!??
while this does not
happen regularly... you must expect the worst...
I wonder what kind of job you do for living... something that ppl
worship????
still in school 
So to improve our service standards in singpore means service
industry ppl should be treated like animals, and enjoy doing so
because we are paid???
Not SHOULD be treated like animals... EXPECT to be treated like
animals and learn to live with it... only then can you truly give
good service in all situations, from the bottom of your heart, no
matter what the customers says or does...
WTF??? IT"S PPL LIKE YOU WHO DISHEARTENS SERIVCE CREW! NO WONDER
PPL DON'T WANT TO JOIN THIS INDUSTRY, BECAUSE IT'S A UNSPOKEN RULE
THAT WE WILL BE ABUSED AND TREATED LIKE DIRT BECAUSE OF YOU THIS
TYPE OF LAU LAN, SIA LAN, CHO BO LAN SICK PIGS LOR!!!
WTF??? ITS SERVICE CREW LIKE YOU WHO MAKE THE CUSTOMER IN
SINGAPORE SO ANGRY AND UNCOMPROMISING!!!! NO WONDER CUSTOMERS TREAT
YOU LIKE SHIT, ITS BECAUSE THEY'VE COME TO EXPECT THIS KIND OF
HORRIBLE LAN JIAO SERVICE FROM YOU LOT!!!! IT IS AN UNSPOKEN RULE
THAT YOU MAY BE
TREATED LIKE DIRT, BUT YOU PEOPLE EXPECT THE CUSTOMERS TO BE ALL
NICE AND FRIENDLY!!!! IN THIS WORLD, NOT EVERYONE IS NICE AND
FRIENDLY OK!!! YOU BOH LAN, HUM JI SERVICE INDUSTRY
COCKUPS!!!!
SO THINK AGAIN, you so good, so clever, you come work as server
lor!
hahaha.... I am that much more good and clever than you... never
got screamed at by any customer that I served 
It's so sad to even know that loosers like you got the cheek to
tell service industry ppl how to improve.
And its sad to even know that losers like you in the service
industry don't know how to handle criticism and improve themselves,
leading to worse service in Singapore. 