My guy friend (40) want to go after 24 yr old girl

last SG · 2012-08-17T16:39:12+00:00

To marry anyone more than 5 year older than me is absurd.

soleachip SG

I don't understand. Why is this any of your business?

jojobeach SG

not all old man 40 yo want to date young woman. there are some who prefer mature woman who might better in caring for the family. but on the other hand, it is easier to date a younger woman. older woman who are never married and successfull, will have demanding criteria in men. older woman who are divorce is experience in their first marriage failure, are also more carefyl in their choice of next partner.

You pretty much nailed it dude.

Its easier to get inside a younger woman panty. Because she is less experienced, less cautious and less wiser than an older successful lady.

But there's a difference in stupid vs smart.

Stupid women cannot raise smart children. One cannot teach what one does not know.

Unfortunately, most men do prefer stupid girls, that's why newer generation SGreans are getting more and more dumbed down.

jojobeach SG

I don't understand. Why is this any of your business?

It is very important to old Kam. Because if his friend with a pot belly and under paid income can make it with such a gal,... Then he will feel validated then so too can he.

Jesus needed to walk on water and performed miracles before his followers believed he ain't some dirty vagrant talking rubbish.

troublemaker2005 SG

You pretty much nailed it dude.

Its easier to get inside a younger woman panty. Because she is less experienced, less cautious and less wiser than an older successful lady.

But there's a difference in stupid vs smart.

Stupid women cannot raise smart children. One cannot teach what one does not know.

Unfortunately, most men do prefer stupid girls, that's why newer generation SGreans are getting more and more dumbed down.

yeh hor, stop at two - they also listen - hahahaha

now cannot stop at two, if must stop i bring in foreign bitches more smarter can argue lou loud in buses - hahahaha

next election - giv handous - sure vote for me - hahahahaha

Army 21 SG

yeh hor, stop at two - they also listen - hahahaha

now cannot stop at two, if must stop i bring in foreign bitches more smarter can argue lou loud in buses - hahahaha

next election - giv handous - sure vote for me - hahahahaha

suspects u could really be angel7030.........from way u talk.is ok..we all understand the identity crisis thing and need to come clean on the slate......

Oldkamhouse SG

It is very important to old Kam. Because if his friend with a pot belly and under paid income can make it with such a gal,... Then he will feel validated then so too can he.

Jesus needed to walk on water and performed miracles before his followers believed he ain't some dirty vagrant talking rubbish.

I just curious, thats all.

My friend and I are from Generation X so we wonder what are the thoughts of Generation Y?

My uncle who is now in his 60s, was married his wife when he was 36 and she was 21. Now they have two kids, all grown up.

So I wonder if this is possible in the present day?

Rock^Star SG

I think it's very simple. Wanna follow the cock, then go chase. Wanna follow the head, then better not. Cos if 40 and not much money, no car and pot belly, then what's the point?

Young and pretty girls who go for much older guys, normally these guys are loaded. If your friend wants to try, why not too? Learning curve :)

Oldkamhouse SG

Yes he is a great friend, unfortunately he is not the best person to get advise from regarding women.

You don't go to a beggar and ask for financial advise.

I have many friends who married spouse with big age gap. Many have kids, many are happily married. The comonality in every cases , All the older men are able to provide SECURITY to their younger wife. The older make spouse, look good, lived a healthy life and took care of their body.

That's why the younger women choose them over younger men.

All I am saying is , know your limitations, think about what u can offer and consider the long term implications.

Your friend probably think he stands a chance because that lady is kind and do charity. Is your friend a Charity ? No.

If she is truly that wonderful, then your friend better be prepared to have some fierce competition with other men.

If she likes older men, your friend won't be the Only old guy going after her.

Your friend helped you get better, you should help him shape up and live a healthier life. That's what friends are for. You help him, you also helping yourself.

I went out to drink with my friend again. He told me he just gave me a recent update.

It looks like he is facing tight competition.

He told me, last week, his company was having a treasure hunt outing, in car convoys. So he was in the same car as two younger guys in their late 20s and his direct boss. Don't know how they got news about my friends interest in this girl but the direct boss started to tease the two younger guys, that they are so handsome and why they didn't bother to go after the 24 year old girl?

My friend was dumbstruck, he could not say anything as it was coming out of his direct boss. His boss was apparently trying to matchmake the two younger guys to this 24 year old girl and talking in the car as if my friend is not existing.

So in his mind, he was thinking, is this office politics? And so my friend decided not to go after her because he didn't want to risk his office career.

But in his mind, he wonders why his boss would say something like that?

Oldkamhouse SG

I think it's very simple. Wanna follow the cock, then go chase. Wanna follow the head, then better not. Cos if 40 and not much money, no car and pot belly, then what's the point?

Young and pretty girls who go for much older guys, normally these guys are loaded. If your friend wants to try, why not too? Learning curve :)

I don't think its impossible.

The problem is, the girl my friend is going after, is really really A-lister in terms of beauty. When he showed me her pictures, I wonder why she is working in such a dead end job with corporate pay when she could actually go out there and do some modelling or even act in mandarin movies because of her looks.

My uncle did succeeded in marrying somebody who was 15 years younger than him but he did that during the 1980s. So nowadays, I think the generation Y mentality could be different.

Maybe my friend could hit it with somebody much younger, so as long as she is not so beautiful looking and the competition is not too tight.

Rock^Star SG

Hahahaha...kena from the boss.

Army 21 SG

I don't think its impossible.

psst...lemme fly down from australia and bring yer galfrend back.

Army 21 SG

she got yunger sister or not???:)

jojobeach SG

Your friend is so dense he still wonders why ?

If your friend is rich, successful and handsome, his boss wouldn't say such things lah. The boss may want to pimp off that girl to your friend just to score some brownie points.

Boss hinting to back off already, so please lah... Still want to thick skin, later everyone in his office start to despise him, then too late Liao.

Your uncle is older than my parents, back then women are treated as lesser humans, girls are Just an extra mouth to feed , and walking incubators. Parents can't wait to get rid of them for a fat dowry. Pretty one give to rich men, ugly ones for a pig/goat.

Nowadays, women are cherished and doted on.. You want to compare for what?

Why do you think Vietnam brides are willing to marry old ugly Singaporean men? He so desperate to marry young chicks, tell him to spend some money and get himself a third world bride lor.... Best yet, tell him to migrate there lah...

Yah lah, u think go Geylang, pay $150 can F a sexy young prostitute, your standard must be very high is it ? Now you also expect any woman with that kind of standard to marry u, ah ? then go marry a prostitute lor.

troublemaker2005 SG

I think it's very simple. Wanna follow the cock, then go chase. Wanna follow the head, then better not. Cos if 40 and not much money, no car and pot belly, then what's the point?

Young and pretty girls who go for much older guys, normally these guys are loaded. If your friend wants to try, why not too? Learning curve :)

u don;t undertsand the girls, poor ones, chop 1x good good, rich one, can stay in his bed and chop longer

troublemaker2005 SG

I went out to drink with my friend again. He told me he just gave me a recent update.

It looks like he is facing tight competition.

So in his mind, he was thinking, is this office politics? And so my friend decided not to go after her because he didn't want to risk his office career.

But in his mind, he wonders why his boss would say something like that?

is the boss only primary 6?

troublemaker2005 SG

Your friend is so dense he still wonders why ?

If your friend is rich, successful and handsome, his boss wouldn't say such things lah. The boss may want to pimp off that girl to your friend just to score some brownie points.

Boss hinting to back off already, so please lah... Still want to thick skin, later everyone in his office start to despise him, then too late Liao.

Nowadays, women are cherished and doted on.. You want to compare for what?

cannot, those prostitute down there very dirty,

jojobeach SG

cannot, those prostitute down there very dirty,

U hav no problem putting your dik there wat. U think your one very clean is it?

motoway SG

I went out to drink with my friend again. He told me he just gave me a recent update.

It looks like he is facing tight competition.

So in his mind, he was thinking, is this office politics? And so my friend decided not to go after her because he didn't want to risk his office career.

But in his mind, he wonders why his boss would say something like that?

It's not office poilitics.

Your friend's boss also think he frog want to eat swan's meat.

Isn't it obvious - seriously?

motoway SG

I don't think its impossible.

My uncle did succeeded in marrying somebody who was 15 years younger than him but he did that during the 1980s. So nowadays, I think the generation Y mentality could be different.

Maybe my friend could hit it with somebody much younger, so as long as she is not so beautiful looking and the competition is not too tight.

Dude.

If your friend wants a shot, please ask him to pick someone his standards..

U ownslef already say this girl is A list in terms of looks.

Your friend has a pot belly, is much older, does not have alot of money. Unless your friend is Clooney, do u really think it will work? Really? Dude come on..

We are talking about a NUS grad here.. not some country bumpkin from Vietnam that thinks Singaporean men are rich.

I tell you when the girl knows your friend likes her she's gonna fucking freak out. Sorry but truth be told.

troublemaker2005 SG

U hav no problem putting your dik there wat. U think your one very clean is it?

hey c'mon, mine is a 5 decade half a century maiden wood hard tool, i gotta appeal against this comment

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