Should I tell woman that her spouse is cheating on her?

Greenpeas009 SG

Just let it be.. she'll figure it out herself.. you dont need to create more problems in betraying your friends trust.

Anonymouswoman1970 SG

No, there are no children involved. But apparently he wants to wait until he's more stable financially before he leaves her. Isn't that kind of an a**hole thing to do.

Dalforce 1941 SG

Since this marriage is doomed and he is going to divorce her in the near future, you might as well give the marriage the finishing blow and give the upperhand to your female friend. Tell her to get the evidence of cheating so that she will have the advantage in divorce proceedings.

jojobeach SG

No, there are no children involved. But apparently he wants to wait until he's more stable financially before he leaves her. Isn't that kind of an a**hole thing to do.

Well... since there is no children involve.. then what are you waiting for.

He is an A-hole anyway... and that mistress totally deserves this kind of man.

Spare that wife and set her free earlier... short pain better than being dicked around by an A-hole any longer.

Anonymouswoman1970 SG

Yeah I would like to tell her. But I was hoping I could do it in a way that neither of them would know that it was me. Any suggestions?

FireIce SG

type a note

send as snail mail

[imdestinyz] SG

send an anoynamous email lor

AhBeng2 SG

we should mind our own biz and let nature takes its course. its everyone's own karma. u think u doing her a favor? then you should also prepare to help her reconstruct d after effect.

bear in mind the consequences if you tell her.... you need then to be her witness.

send her an anonymous note....seems harmless......better include a picture to convince....

we dun really know the reason for many things.... I know some married couple very sexily crazy about each other still in their 40s/50s...

Cbblp SG

U shud Let other ppl handle their own affairs as this issue is very sensitive. By telling her u may spark a confrontation which could lead to worse things. Have seen couple fighting till one injured or even dead. Maybe he would wait for the right time to tell her, it wud be much less painful than finding it out herself and getting him to admit.

mrwonderful SG

i know some people like this.

alot of assholes out there. best is not to be friends with them anymore.

why you still hanging out with these kind of people?

Uraniumfish SG

Dont anyhow send anonymous mail, otherwise you will have a desperate housewifves typeof situation.

mr music SG

Just tell her lah…why everyone so 婆婆妈妈?

Uraniumfish SG

Just tell her lah…why everyone so 婆婆妈妈?

why everyone so ching ching chong chong? i've been asking that a lot lately.

mr music SG

why everyone so ching ching chong chong? i've been asking that a lot lately.

May I know what is ching ching chong chong?

Summer hill SG

take a recording and show it to ur friend.

it's evidence, so that your friend can bash up her husband and take 70% of his assets.

Domdom_wassup SG

take a recording and show it to ur friend.

it's evidence, so that your friend can bash up her husband and take 70% of his assets.

Agree. Some guys just deserve it. But there are nice guys out there too. If you think u are helping her then go ahead but must have evidence, if not its all a waste of time.

SgSling SG

Hi,

It's very hard to be in your position as you never know how it's going to turn out for you. Even if she is not mad at you she might be embarrassed by the situation and decide not to see you anymore...

First, try to get some evidence. Then, why don't you try to ask your friend directly by mentioning another case or celebrity case? I had a neighbor who was cheating on his wife... luckily I was not friend with the woman. But I had a close friend in my condo and talking about that we agreed if we would notice anything suspicious about our husbands we will let each other know. I definitely want to know but some women don't... Try to find out. If she says she would like to know then wait for a few days, invite her for lunch, show your evidences and try to comfort her...

Good luck!

Discord SG

I think you should tell her the hurt will only increase if she finds out later...better for her to know the truth...

crazyheart SG

My friend has been married for almost 10 years. During the whole marriage he has been cheating on her both in and out of Singapore. This time he's with another girl that I know and they have been together for more than a year. They always talk about the future (having babies, etc) in front of me, and he even said he would leave his wife for her in about one year! I feel very bad for his wife. But I read a lot of forums regarding this topic and they said the messenger is the one who will get into trouble but I really cannot put up with this!! Any suggestions on what to do? Help please!!

Gather evidence first (photos?) then just send an anonymous email? But you need to consider how the wife would react in such a painful situation. Would she be capable of handling such a shock? Consider this so you may figure out the most proper way in letting her know, let all out at one go or little by little give her some hints.

Cheers

Uraniumfish SG

You might have a Desperate Housewives type of deal. Be careful.

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