" He claimed that as a father when we need the money, he doesnt
question how we use his money and so when he needs the money, we
should not question how come he needs and how and where he uses
it"
This is a classic manipulator. If you are
smart, you would never buy into this.
Try asking him for $50,000 , see if he will question why and
where you want to spend it. Chances are... he'll ask you why
and say NO anyway, because he is no fool.
I din buy into that leh... cause i felt that was nonsense right
from the start... i will slap myself in the face if i paid because
he said that... but it aint the reason i paid...
But wad's impt, is that it is not gonna happen a 2nd time...