LOL! Most of my friends are happy go lucky, happy chappy
type.
I just dont like the fact that once they step in to a place, the
mood immediately changes.
So, yes, great plan, just IGNORE. Yes, i cant make people
change.
Why do I care so much??? 4 years of class together, not even a
sentence spoken,
you obviously want the person to speak up more often
right????
You wait until you are in yuor 30s lah. It become even worse.
All the so-called friends you encountered, will just walk by you,
not even acknowledge you. That is the truth of life. People are
just too busy and not bothered about other people.
I know because I have friends who are in their 30s tell me this.
Once they get married and have kids, got no time for friends.
People are like that. What more the social pressures of
today?
Last year I went for my high school reuniion, felt strange, we
felt like we don't know each other that well anymore, even for
thsoe friends i've knows for 6 years. Even things we talk about are
so different because some of us are doing differnt things, lawyers
talk like lawyers, photographers talk about pictures, teachers talk
about their students, graphic designers talk about art, human
resource people talk about work skills, etc.
Yes you can't change people unless you want to beat him up. But
you can change your situation by finding new friends, and likely
find a girlfriend because that is the person that you talk to
24-7.
