Need help on what to do when gf is pregnant

jojobeach SG

My and my gf are 18 and still schooling. She thinks that she is pregnant and if she is i dont want to abort it. I really need advise on what to do as i still want to study and at the same time support her all the way. Was thinking of going NS to financially support her while she study. Please help :(

When was the last time she missed her menstruation ?

Please go and get a pregnancy test kit from any nearby pharmacy. All she need to do is pee on the tip n u get your results within minutes. Kindly read instructions properly to get an accurate result.

After she is confirmed pregnant, please go n speak to both side parents. U don't need their permission , just their blessings. One baby is easy with 4 grandparents. If 2 grandparents not interested, u still have 2 more to help u.

Then seek a good gynae/obstetrics doctor for pre-natal care.

All the best !

Medicated Oil SG

It is better to rope in both your parents for discussion if both of you want to keep the baby.

Instagirl.net SG

Tell MP is the fastest way. Get him in. He will help. and forget about others girl. (this girl will nothing to do with u anymore.) haha

troublemaker2005 SG

Hey ther. HAPPY FATHER'S DAY! what's to worry, having a baby is fun and good news to both families

angel7030 SG

First time I heard such a constructive comment from you.
Thumbs up.

First time meh? many times already, just that people pretend not to appreciate it, could be due to ego and pride or simply, jealousy.

Dun forget, I am a professional entertainer ya,

Display Name SG

First time meh? many times already, just that people pretend not to appreciate it, could be due to ego and pride or simply, jealousy.

Dun forget, I am a professional entertainer ya,

Sorry if I make you confused.
What I meant is first time I hear this from you, though you have made quite some high quality comments and suggestion before. coz I seldom come sgforums mah.
har!

alize SG

18 is way too young to be a father, especially in Singapore where everything will cost you dearly. If you have the baby, unless you have generous parental support, it's going to take every drop of your savings (and time) and you will be pretty much poor for life. If you want to be a father some day, this is not the time. Perhaps when you're 30.

So you'll pretty much need your and her parent's permission and blessings unless you want to do this on your own. Your gf may want not want to abort but if you sell her on the horrors of the above, she'll come around.

FireIce SG

threadstarter not back to read any of these posts yet.

or maybe got hacked by the girl's dad liao.

speakoutfor SG

You can put baby for adoption.

alize SG

You can put baby for adoption.

I think in singapore nobody wants.

troublemaker2005 SG

First time meh? many times already, just that people pretend not to appreciate it, could be due to ego and pride or simply, jealousy.

Dun forget, I am a professional entertainer ya,

yaya kalapar lah

jojobeach SG

TS already said he want to keep the baby already you dumb shit. Why do you keep asking people to kill their own child ?

It's possible to be a parent at 18, so many cases out there with happy ending.

I have a classmate who got pregnant and married after O level. Now her kids very big already, bring her go shopping , holiday and she is not even that old yet.

What is important is support from family. So please stop hiding inside your cave.

The horror is not about how poor you are... at 18 who is rich ?

This is the true horror why people shouldn't be killing babies.

alize SG

TS already said he want to keep the baby already you dumb shit. Why do you keep asking people to kill their own child ?

It's possible to be a parent at 18, so many cases out there with happy ending.

I have a classmate who got pregnant and married after O level. Now her kids very big already, bring her go shopping , holiday and she is not even that old yet.

What is important is support from family. So please stop hiding inside your cave.

The horror is not about how poor you are... at 18 who is rich ?

This is the true horror why people shouldn't be killing babies.

Fuck you, you have a right to tell me what to type?

You're just a totally dependent housewife who campaigns for your holy "family" because of your own fears of being abandoned. I would ask anyone to take your posts with more than a pinch of salt.

When people complain about their mother, you scold them instead.

When people complain their wives aren't giving sex, you scold them for not being interesting enough.

When people say housewives are uneducated you get all angry.

You can't even rebutt my post in proper grammar, of what worth in the world are you.

jojobeach SG

Fuck you, you have a right to tell me what to type?

You're just a totally dependent housewife who campaigns for your holy "family" because of your own fears of being abandoned. I would ask anyone to take your posts with more than a pinch of salt.

When people complain about their mother, you scold them instead.

When people complain their wives aren't giving sex, you scold them for not being interesting enough.

When people say housewives are uneducated you get all angry.

You can't even rebutt my post in proper grammar, of what worth in the world are you.

yadaa yaddaa.. crawl out of that rock you live in numbskull.

Yes we know.. instead of putting on condoms you told all your ex-fucks to abort your children instead. Selfish pricks like you are too worried about them depleting whatever puny savings account.

Idiots like you need to be castrated.

Rebutt you with proper grammer ? Why dont you read MY butt instead ? That'll teach you about FOCUSING on the topic.. instead you go all over the place just to take a jab at me .

Go get some education first, you low class scum.

alize SG

Well, now you have both arguments.

It's not a baby or person, it doesn't think or feel when it is still a bunch of 10 cells. It has less sense than an insect. You better take care of it before it has a brain.

Lord knows this anti-abortion campaigner aunty's suggestion is easier said than done.

jojobeach SG

Well, now you have both arguments.

Lord knows this anti-abortion campaigner aunty's suggestion is easier said than done.

U obviously know nothing about abortion, nor raising a family....yet u happily advocate such hedious act of killing ones own child.

Ur mother shoulda aborted u when ur dad Screwed her that night, what a sorry waste of our resources.

alize SG

U obviously know nothing about abortion, nor raising a family....yet u happily advocate such hedious act of killing ones own child.

Ur mother shoulda aborted u when ur dad Screwed her that night, what a sorry waste of our resources.

The word is "hideous," aunty.

angel7030 SG

Wha!!, used F words, why get so agitated??, please lah, that goondo gf pregnant is none of our business, just give him some good advices and buzz off, no need to argue over it.

Want to fight or quarrel, go outside lah

jojobeach SG

The word is "hideous," aunty.

Yes boy boy, thank u for using spell check. Come I give u a penny for your hard work. Now go get yourself some lollipop.

jojobeach SG

Wha!!, used F words, why get so agitated??, please lah, that goondo gf pregnant is none of our business, just give him some good advices and buzz off, no need to argue over it.

Want to fight or quarrel, go outside lah

Yes Sista, some kids need to be scolded before they learn to behave. Their parents never teach them properly u see.

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