I am sad to hear your plight. I can imagine the pain and hurt to
be betrayed by someone you love. The world is full of unfaithful
people who are not satisfied with their spouse.
In my companies I worked for, I had also seen such
colleaugues.
In the first case, this Malaysian is a sweet and understanding
gal who has a Malaysian boyfriend, and their wedding is around the
corner. I liked her alot too, but when I knew she was attached, I
backed off. Especially when others told me not to waste my time as
she is super faithful. But I had seen her together with a China guy
very often at work. During a company holiday trip to Genting, both
of them often disappeared instead of hanging out with us. When we
returned, after a few days later, I when to the back of the company
for a snake break and caught them kissing. Although she is not my
girlfriend, but I still felt so hurt. Firstly because she
previously rejected me and not this Chinese pig. I cannot even
compare to him? And 2nd is that everyone thought she is so
faithful but yet this happened.She made me lost faith in
relationships.
The second case is in the company I work for now. This 27 year
old Shanghai male colleague is married but always screw
around. When another married Shanghai female colleague (abit
pretty) joined, they clicked immediately. They went for business
trips together and its obvious what will happen. Many other
colleagues said they saw them cuddling in MRT and kissing in
quiet places in the company. I feel so sorry for their spouses. I
so wish this will not happen to me.
To TS, I hope you will not take it too hard if she is really
screwing the guy. Be strong, for your dotta!
You coulda be the one to screw her. However, it is wise not to
shit where you eat.
If things go bad.. those two can balek kampong and disappear
into their forest and mountains. You being a local has to worry
about sustaining your reputation here.
Go overseas, like these Malaysian and China people..and
the world is your playground. Until your past come back one day to
bite you in the butt.
Do unto others what others do unto you. I'd call up their spouse
and gf/bf and tell them the truth.
When people understand they cannot get away with this kind of
behavior they will naturally stop.
