the mother is selfish. 
She give birth to a child (twin), she is responsible for
them.
and also, TS, you must think of the child feelings. bastard, do
you know how the child will feel? Going to the darn family court at
such a young age??
Don't try to break up the family, TS. my parents are divorced, i
know how it feels and maybe you don't know.
Dear TS's friend,
You gave birth to your twins. As a responsibility, you own
everything to the child. You need to feed them, protect them, give
them a shelter, an education and everything a child should have.
and that includes a complete family.
TYVM
You can't say that. For obvious reason, if the guy never stray,
then all these problems wouldn't have been there in the first
place. The family was broken up when the guy CHOSE to have multiple
affairs with multiple women. It was not broken up because of the
wife, much less from the friend, but it was broken up the moment
the guy with intent, chose to have sexual relations with multiple
women.
My parents never take care of me when I was young, but that
didn't stop me from growing up to be a successful person. Let's not
push all responsibilities to the parents here. All the problems
arose from the straying husband, so let's focus on that root
problem and not the symptoms that came out from it.
If you have a certain illness, you want to cure that illness and
not the symptoms such as runny nose/headaches/sore throat because
if you remove the symptoms alone, they will come back
eventually.
