just quarrel with a female fren

redname SG

I just had a quarrel with this female fren. some nasty words were exchanged, things heated up and she got really upset and says nvr wanna see me ever again.

she's the gf of my very very good fren and now my fren is getting the sh!t as she's venting everything on him, screaming at him, threatening to sucide (this gal has issues lah)

i really wish to settle this as i dnt want my fren to get into this, he has enough problems already.

i tried to intitate a talk with her by giving her a sms about it by she didn't reply at all.

This is really killing our frenship as i can't hang out with our grp of frens anymore as this gal is very sticky and will go with my fren everywhere.

pls tell me wat to do next

Jacky Woo SG

simple, dun see her again.

if i were you, I dun see her again. is she worthy of being a friend, go ask yourself this.

Jacky Woo SG

if she dun want to see you, make friends with other people. so many people out there waiting for you to befriend isnt it, esp those nice and courteous people.

redname SG

yah but if i were to meet up with our grp of frens, she sure will wanna stick along or worse ask the bf not to go

the bf is my very very gd fren, so i'm not gng to lose this frenship

Jacky Woo SG

if the bf dun want to friend you cos of this minor matter, you think its worth befriending him?

the test of friendships not like this one. if the bf dun want to friend u no more, be glad so that you can see his true colours.

alize SG

If she is such a stupid fuck, both of you should let her go and make the world a better place.

Jacky Woo SG

how old r u and the ger and her bf?

redname SG

if the bf dun want to friend you cos of this minor matter, you think its worth befriending him?

the test of friendships not like this one. if the bf dun want to friend u no more, be glad so that you can see his true colours.

he won't give up our frenship one lah just tht it really makes things difficult for him and tht's the part tht i'm feeling sh!tty about

redname SG

If she is such a stupid fuck, both of you should let her go and make the world a better place.

i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior

Jacky Woo SG

i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior

thats his business for having a bimbo gf right. so many gfs for him to choose, yet he choses her. imagine if the gf becomes her wife

Summer hill SG

i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior

don't worry, a lot of people patroling at bedok reservior

Jacky Woo SG

he won't give up our frenship one lah just tht it really makes things difficult for him and tht's the part tht i'm feeling sh!tty about

why are you punishing yourself over this? just take it when it comes to it. the worse is, dun friend right? so why u worry over this now? u got other better things to worry than this right

Darkness_hacker99 SG

I last time also friend with my best friend... I ask her out for a meal..

On the way to the makan place, I just suck it up and say...

" I'm sorry for (say the reason)..., and I know i shouldn't have said that"

At first it's kinda hard to say sorry.. but after that once you got enough courage, all problems can be solved. That's probably the hardest thing to do; saying sorry to my bestie.

MagnificientDiagrams SG

Its time for you to find a girlfriend (I am guessing you are a guy).

Once you are into a BF/GF relationship, it will occupy your time.

FireIce SG

the problem is now between him and her bcos she is not handling it well.

u can issue an apology to her, and him.

then let them deal with it

alize SG

i can give her up but not the bf cause she's so dependent and sticky on him that if this ends, her whole world will crush and we might see another case at bedok reservior

In that case, the world would be a better place.

Imagine if you met another girl like her. "Ohhh shit..." you would say when the months of torture begin.

winsomeea SG

She is still at the rage of anger. Give her and yourself time to cool down then settle.

When two parties are angry with each other it is pretty difficult to be sound and objective to talk things out.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

It doesn't matter who's in the wrong. The question is, do you want to salvage friendship. The first one who Apologise is actually the more superior one.

winsomeea SG

It doesn't matter who's in the wrong. The question is, do you want to salvage friendship. The first one who Apologise is actually the more superior one.

Oops, if friendship is based on who being the superior one the friendship will be full of tension, jealousy, shallow, self-centredness, rage and negative .......... No or little peace in this kind of friendship. What a pity!

Darkness_hacker99 SG

sorry maybe superior is not the word...

I think cultivated is then the right word