just quarrel with a female fren

redname SG

how old r u and the ger and her bf?

she 25, me and the bf 30

redname SG

why are you punishing yourself over this? just take it when it comes to it. the worse is, dun friend right? so why u worry over this now? u got other better things to worry than this right

ok, perhaps i need to give more details on this.

I'm actually a very lonely person and in my live i only got 2 good frens, the bf and another guy.

one of them passed away, now left the bf only, so if no more frens liao then i really no frens liao

redname SG

I last time also friend with my best friend... I ask her out for a meal..

On the way to the makan place, I just suck it up and say...

" I'm sorry for (say the reason)..., and I know i shouldn't have said that"

At first it's kinda hard to say sorry.. but after that once you got enough courage, all problems can be solved. That's probably the hardest thing to do; saying sorry to my bestie.

she didn't even wanna talk about it :(

redname SG

Its time for you to find a girlfriend (I am guessing you are a guy).

Once you are into a BF/GF relationship, it will occupy your time.

i'm hopeless in BGR......

redname SG

the problem is now between him and her bcos she is not handling it well.

u can issue an apology to her, and him.

then let them deal with it

i don't get what you mean leh....

redname SG

She is still at the rage of anger. Give her and yourself time to cool down then settle.

When two parties are angry with each other it is pretty difficult to be sound and objective to talk things out.

i wanna do that but it's kind of eating into me also cause i tend to think too much and start worrying :(

somemore just now when i tried asking the BF on how is she getting along, he replied that our next appt no need meet liao and later just said "take care man", that freaked me out, sounds like a goodbye to me :(

mancha SG

Move on.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

i wanna do that but it's kind of eating into me also cause i tend to think too much and start worrying :(

you very close to the girl issit?

redname SG

you very close to the girl issit?

ok ok only lah but the BF and me are close frens

Darkness_hacker99 SG

So what's the problem actually? I know it's a misunderstanding... but what's the misunderstanding about?

MagnificientDiagrams SG

i'm hopeless in BGR......

That is the reality of life. What do you think the rest of your guy friends are doing? They are all getting into relationships and when they get a partner, chances are you don't know them that well. So when you go outing with them, you would surely feel very strange and left out as the other half of your guy friends don't really know you that well.

This is life progression. You one day have to find your own girlfriend unless you intend to stay single forever. And so what? Everybody is bad at relationships. The only way to be good at is to at least try.

angel7030 SG

For guy nowaday, better join the gay club, at least gay are more understanding, and they thrust each other with care and sincerity.

Frankly, gf/bf issue are too childish to mantle with, losing one friend aint going to make you any different

Cranberry_Rose SG

I think you should find more friends in view of the current circumstances. BF and GF definately are closer, and the more desperate you want to rekindle the relationship with either the BF / GF, the worse it may become. Just play cool, do more outside activities and find more new friends ...stay positive.

Fcukpap SG

do u think gals will care about you just because u know how to make origamis for her?

do u wanna live like an atm machine?

Fcukpap SG

mancha SG

Don't lose sleep over it, Just keep count.

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