why dont you make urself manly like those tomboy?
then maybe he will like you.
and since he is the receiver, u can wear a strap-on dildo to
fuck him. 
i did suggested to him that maybe i should be a butch and he was
totally disgusted. in fact if i could choose my gender, i would
want to be a guy. but too bad internally could not change, so i
would still love men and be a gay. that's if i could choose my
gender, no sex change.