In love with a gay

last SG · 2011-12-19T11:00:43+00:00

this girl on top of me again - siao 1

Fugazzi SG

TS,
I overlooked this – when u let go of expectations of eg, what a guy should be, what success should be . or ….... not necessarily him – u are going to find out that it makes living easy.
As for confesssing – what ur heart wants to say it will say – of course, he may accept/reject – it does not matter. What matters is that u are being true to urself – that is all important!

Ps – When u compare urself to others, it is usually a case of comparing another (eg your lover) to others – this is very unhealthy! Each and everyone of us are unique, that makes all the difference. Trying to be special or think of onself as special – is nuerosis, is caught in a game of rite/wroing, competitive and of course, when matters of the heart is concerned, it never works.
Love is not business!

Againstmadness SG

fugazzi, so you meant that i should notice how he treat others. if he is good to others, it means that he is good-natured and he would be even better to his lover.

if he is only good to his lover, it does not mean that he is a good-natured person. he is just showing affection because he likes his lover.

i understood the confession part, that is how i felt too.

what you meant at the "comparing myself to others" part?

Fugazzi SG

Ts,
He will simply love N not necessarily better .
As for comparison-I merely pointed out that comparing oneself to another is unwise cos there is always someone better/not better than oneself!
Ps: I was not saying that u compare though u coulLd be without realizing that U are

Fugazzi SG

Ts,
See n notice how u treat others lah- that is more than enough for now.
He will reveal what he is in circumstances/situations cos the latter always shows the real person. Muse over this:can one put a lemon in a juIcer n expect orange juice? What is inside each of us will reveal itself in …one cannot escape this!

hisoka SG

so is he gay or bisexual? good luck if he is gay lol.

Againstmadness SG

fugazzi, currently i don't think i am comparing to anyone because he doesn't have a partner who i can compare to, at least.

i think i would need more time for opportunities to see him in difficult circumstances. till now only see him got very angry but he did not lash out. he can control his anger well.

Fugazzi SG

Ts,
Eg If I do compare myself to another person or others , i will certainly compare my friend, spouse or … how can I appreciate this friend or spouse or …. as he or she is. I am in the habit of comparing. In other words, as long as I compare myself to others, i will compare.When i do not compare myself, i will not compare others.

Emotions are meant to be expressed and when they are not expressed or understood, even reconciled, they are merely suppressed, they do not go away.
They will arise in any situation or cirumstance.
Controlling is suppression! It is unhealty, cos one never knows when it would explode or even implode!

angel7030 SG

god knows he could even be wearing it underneath his clothes...

I am not asking God to wear for him, I am just saying that once you gave him, look at his reaction, if he smiles and feel good, then confirm gay. A gift does not mean you need to wear or put on, it is something to cherish, so if he cherished the G strings, at least you can rest your mind.

Againstmadness SG

ok i haven't seen him for a week on, gradually don't miss him so much now. maybe i don't really like him???

about the suppressing part... i hope i don't see the day he explodes!

angel7030 SG

If you heart is not stable, dun fall in love please.

Ah guas are not easy to please.

Againstmadness SG

yeah true... very difficult to please them...

angel7030 SG

Ya, better go buy bak gua fast, later very expensive liao

troublemaker2005 SG

angel, merry christmas

angel7030 SG

yo, new year liao lah, still christmas meh

troublemaker2005 SG

So happy new year

angel7030 SG

Yo, chinese new year liao, still new year meh...pull your ear

troublemaker2005 SG

as at the date and time of this post, haven't countdown yeh you so fast CNY

no wonder you are in agony to be tamed

angel7030 SG

Yo, i follow the maya calender one ok

troublemaker2005 SG

yo, while the world follow the actual official calendar. excuse so many, i tell your farther you notti here she sure punish you when you go home

angel7030 SG

By following the maya calender, you can at least know when is the end of the world, then maybe can hide somewhere and let all the others go and die

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