Married life changed

[imdestinyz] SG

Why are you getting all defensive ?

If TS indeed is not behaving in a childish manner.. that's great.. but if he is... be glad someone came out and warn him of consequences.

Prevention is better than damage control.

Would you rather he gets his ass whopped first.. then come here for more advise later ?

When seeking advise.. listen to ALL sides and all angle.. then pick and choose what is most relevant.

Act on solutions.. and be aware of pitfalls.

So please.. you don't need to lecture me or tell me to shut it.

I'd rather the warning signs be posted in plain sight and way ahead of that cliff ..than to take a nasty plunge because some people think warning signs are too unsightly, so they obsure it or not post it.

OK ? Good.

Add: Frankly.. a lot of women complained they have N small children and 1 big child ( their husbands) to care for.. so that sums up lots about how men tend to regress into a childish fit just to get attention from their wives...you can deny it.. claim I am lying/exaggerating.. it's up to you.. I've heard plenty.. so don't bother telling me it ain't true.

"If TS indeed is not behaving in a childish manner.. that's great.. but if he is... be glad someone came out and warn him of consequences"

u basically din warned him much... u basically just scolded him with the use of your word. If you do not agree, its find too since im jus pointing out.

"Prevention is better than damage control.

Would you rather he gets his ass whopped first.. then come here for more advise later ?

When seeking advise.. listen to ALL sides and all angle.. then pick and choose what is most relevant."

Yes thats right... he shld listen to all sides and pick and choose whatever is relevant assuming that all sides comes from a relatively objective view rather than purely judgemental.

"Add: Frankly.. a lot of women complained they have N small children and 1 big child ( their husbands) to care for.. so that sums up lots about how men tend to regress into a childish fit just to get attention from their wives...you can deny it.. claim I am lying/exaggerating.. it's up to you.. I've heard plenty.. so don't bother telling me it ain't true"

Alot of woman complained about that? How much is alot? And i believe you came in from a female view point and TS came in from a male viewpoint. While "all" the woman complained about the guys? Stand in view of the guy's viewpoint to see the issue instead. I've tried reasoning out on the female's difficulties. What i've seen are merely word-lashes based on a female's viewpoint without giving ample understanding on what's going on in that guy's mind.

I am not here to pick a fight you. Sick and tired of such stuffs, just wanted to point out that amidst all the word lashes here and there, it doesn't really help to solve anything nor is this in anyway constructive to TS.

jojobeach SG

"If TS indeed is not behaving in a childish manner.. that's great.. but if he is... be glad someone came out and warn him of consequences"

u basically din warned him much... u basically just scolded him with the use of your word. If you do not agree, its find too since im jus pointing out.

"Prevention is better than damage control.

Would you rather he gets his ass whopped first.. then come here for more advise later ?

When seeking advise.. listen to ALL sides and all angle.. then pick and choose what is most relevant."

Yes thats right... he shld listen to all sides and pick and choose whatever is relevant assuming that all sides comes from a relatively objective view rather than purely judgemental.

TS married a man or a woman ?

He has problem understanding his woman. If you think you can , as a man, provide a wholesome solution.. based on your limited understanding of women.. then go ahead.. he only needs to listen to you.

I concur on most of your advise to TS..but I also disagree on some. Nobody tells you to shut it, yes ?

Now, please tell me you are a certified family counselor/psychologist . And I will gladly shut it.

ADD: While I judge him to be immature.. you judged him to be mature.. is that not also judging ? So, be careful when you point your finger at someone..... you know the rest... ya ?

The secret to a happy relationship and marriage - Think like a woman.. act like a gentleman. OK ? Good.

angel7030 SG

Hmmm...good question

"TS married a man or a woman ?",

Well, after some sound consultation with my Uncle Hitman, a specialist in living things relationship including animals and insects" we thing that TS married a He She, meaning a gay. No wonder he had a hard time satisfying and understanding her. On the other hand, TS can be a gay himself, more today the lady sissy type.

In a nutshell, it is very difficult for a woman who act like a man and a man who act like a gal to come together and build a family. And when a man like TS act alike a gal, he tends to behave like a kid, and his wife, who behave like a man, act as the leader of the house, the houseman.

We, Dr Hitman and I therefore conclude that it is a rare example of two kinds of gay coming together, get married and give birth. Interesting....hmmm

jojobeach SG

Hmmm...good question

"TS married a man or a woman ?",

We, Dr Hitman and I therefore conclude that it is a rare example of two kinds of gay coming together, get married and give birth. Interesting....hmmm

Isn't it "fascinating" how you see men consulting other men about women.. then unanimously declare that they finally figured out the female psyche ?

Or these men seek counsel with their mother/female family members ( because she is a female), disregarding the fact that she is biased to her son's interest or her own ?

Bio-Hawk SG

Isn't it "fascinating" how you see men consulting other men about women.. then unanimously declare that they finally figured out the female psyche ?

Or these men seek counsel with their mother/female family members ( because she is a female), disregarding the fact that she is biased to her son's interest or her own ?

BS!! As if the females do not have a counselling circle.

@OP: Read the book 'The great female con' by Randed.

jojobeach SG

BS!! As if the females do not have a counselling circle.

@OP: Read the book 'The great female con' by Randed.

When female get together.. it's gossiping lah. Simi counselling.. we don't even believe hundred percent of each other's story.

Andrey Randead's book is banned. Even Amazon.com don't wanna carry his book.

His misogynistic view is based on females less than 30 years old IN THE USA.

Divorce rate in USA is 50%. So that means a lot of females grew up in households where their fathers are NOT there 50% or more of their growing up life ( depending on divorce agreement). These girls probably has STEP mothers and/or STEP fathers.

Remarrying in the states is so common.. it's like a nation wide adult swing club here.
These girls see how their own father disrespect their mother.. so it's hard to expect impressionable young girls to respect males.

Andrey's book is based on his gripe about how females disrespect men in the USA. Given the situation mentioned above.. it's hardly surprising ain't it ?

Now if you so choose to read his book.. remember.. you don't live in the USA. Andrey is an entrepreneur and he makes money off people's fear.

alize SG

Hmmm...good question

"TS married a man or a woman ?",

We, Dr Hitman and I therefore conclude that it is a rare example of two kinds of gay coming together, get married and give birth. Interesting....hmmm

First time heard of a "womam" begging for sex. TS wife is a lucky "man" !

troublemaker2005 SG

Hmmm...good question

"TS married a man or a woman ?",

We, Dr Hitman and I therefore conclude that it is a rare example of two kinds of gay coming together, get married and give birth. Interesting....hmmm

come on, its as weird as one who wears a strado and anals men

angel7030 SG

come on, its as weird as one who wears a strado and anals men

Strange? if the market sells strado, what is there to be strange about? Business people dun make thing out of low demand. And it is not cheap hor? about the same price as a Iphone 4s

angel7030 SG

Isn't it "fascinating" how you see men consulting other men about women.. then unanimously declare that they finally figured out the female psyche ?

Or these men seek counsel with their mother/female family members ( because she is a female), disregarding the fact that she is biased to her son's interest or her own ?

For eons, men have been trying to figure out on female behavorial or psyche, but they fail miserably on each and every attempt. In a fit of frustration, the gay men world is born, more so in today society where women like us are getting more complicated by the days.

Genetic transfer can be excusable, but gays nurtured out of parenting and society influences can alway be prevented. Given a $$ demanding society and a single son concept of living, every son is treated like a goddamn God of the family, and with father alway outside making money or busy with golf, meeting and mistress, the care is left only for the mother, the maid, the grandmother and sister.

Since young, every drip of saliva was wiped, every bite by mosquitos was being attended seriously to the extend of seeing a doctor, every cry make was tamed immediately with the blame going toward the father or the maids. All these pampering are the begining of a gay in the making.

troublemaker2005 SG

Strange? if the market sells strado, what is there to be strange about? Business people dun make thing out of low demand. And it is not cheap hor? about the same price as a Iphone 4s

no lah, demand not as high as iphone 4s if not everyone can buy like iphone4s already. some girls go buy banan can already. after that can consume somemore

angel7030 SG

But I like the iphone 4s vibrator sensor, solid men!

troublemaker2005 SG

there you go again. you must really get married for your life to change instead of dwelling on this type of hobby.

Demon Bane SG

No two people are the same and with the same needs/wants and thinkings....its important to note that ...must give and take....sometimes u must do things to make your spouse happy....both must understand this....divorce shall be the last on your minds....

benqepson SG

Once you enter marriage life it is difficult to come out . There is a long way to go . In Singapore , there is this woman charter that is protecting the wife and not the husband . Husband will lose out a lot. So in a marriage sometimes its good to close one eye. You got to live with it. Thats life .

angel7030 SG

true, never is two people the same, in fact, the whole people are different in many ways, from characteristics to whatever, but, born, live, sick, old and died for all, is the same. Once you are able to comprehend and understand the dynamic of the same, you will live more happily

Demon Bane SG

Very true ! Hahaha!

Any updates from TS ?

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