let me add on for him or her.
if you are doing clerical work, doing the daily shit work, like
faxing, emailing, mailing of letters, glue stamps, go to the bank
etc, how do you motivate yourself doing these mundane job day in
day out, week in week out, month in month out, year in year out?
suddenly you realised you been doing this work for 20 years
you hated your job very much but you cant
quit, cos you got a family to feed.
don't get married and have kids lor. come one if you want a
family and wants kids and need a job this is the thing you have to
do. if you can do it without money then by all means go ahead. so
whose fault? your fault for marry and having to manage it later? or
not married stay single eat kraft single?
