Hi thanks for sharing. My husband totally supports my decisions. We
have in the past tried to reconcile but it didn't work so we decide
to cut off ties with those undesirable people (except my younger
sis). We are both staying focused on our kids. When I came to this
forum, I was confused but now I know what to do. No one
way/solution works for everyone but it works in my case. I have
come to understand life is too short to keep holding on to people
who do not genuinely care about me. I want to say thank you all and
take care everyone. :)
Relatives and sibling can be good on the skin, but when it come to
money, caring for parents and deeds issues, even
their kids argued with yr kids over some games can
become world war 3.
Care for yourself first, once you are well taken cared by
yourself, just like me, then care about others, most people cannot
even care for themselves, then want to care and talk big on
others.,,..yuck.
On Board plane, in emergency, the oxygen mask will drop, please
tend to yourself first before you put it on your child, thank
you.