he is married, also a flirt

last SG · 2011-10-27T23:43:53+00:00

yes, u r right, and for those gals who like to attact other people are not that good, they don't like ppl who is different from them, and they always think...

Darkness_hacker99 SG

These were the past gatherings that we had

M874 SG

yes! must be careful when you date guys next time okay? One day you will find the guy who loves you as much as you love him.

Thanks, dunno when will that day come.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Study hard jiayou!

Mr Milo SG

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oh yah, those were the days, huh?

now is like..............????

Bio-Hawk SG

I know it sounds stupid, but please don't laught at me.

He is a married Singaporean. At first I didn't pay any attention to him, but he tried to contact with me whenever he could. He is extremely smart and very good at analyse other people's personality, I feel so happy and relaxed when I'm with him, he could find out what is in my mind even when I didn't say anything. so...I fell in love with him...I'm such a fool.

Though I loved him very much I still refused to be his so called "girlfriend", I don't wanna be anybody's mistress. He tried so hard to persuade me to have sex with him, but he just couldn't get it from me, for one reason is that he is married, and the other most important reason is I'm a virgin, I'm not gonna give my very first time to a married man who doesn't love me at all. He even asked me to find a boyfriend then have sex with him. In the end, he became so angry that he said so many dirty words to me, and all those dirty sex fantasy he had...

But that is not the worst thing, the "best part" is I eventually found out he is also chasing after a lot of girls, almost every woman he has met, no matter how old is she or whether she is good looking or not. and he actually do got what he want in most cases, he even had sex with someone I have worked with....That's really disgusting! , I feel like I had swallowed a fly. He is the kind of person who wants to get as much girls as he could, it likes a game to him.

ALL THE THINGS HE HAD DONE, ALL THOSE THINGS HE SAID ARE FAKE, he is not the one who I thought he is. And I have been acting like a fool all the time.

He said I'm too serious, it's very normal to just have sex with anyone you want, no need to think too much morality, right or wrong stuffs. But what I'm looking for is ture love, am I wrong? Or this is culture conflict? I mean do most Singaporean have the same thought as him?

Yes you are a fool and all men are like that. Rest of them are pussies with dicks.

M874 SG

Yes you are a fool and all men are like that. Rest of them are pussies with dicks.

Then no good man exists?

Sasperillabob SG

I know it sounds stupid, but please don't laught at me.

ALL THE THINGS HE HAD DONE, ALL THOSE THINGS HE SAID ARE FAKE, he is not the one who I thought he is. And I have been acting like a fool all the time.

Wow, i wish there r more singaporean women like u. U r so easy to please. U cannot imagine how difficult it is to live wif a singaporean gf. Frankly speaking, to handle a rship wif my gf give me extreme headache, esp we hv differences over $$$ (what exp shd be split).

Zhaojin1027 SG

Since you have found his real personality, then leave far away from him. this is the only way. He is really bad and fortunately you are not losing too much.

Hitman Factory 1 SG

reminds me of my male cat in spore.always fighting n making loud noises at nite!!then one day , we took it to the doctor n had his balls removed.since then he doesnt fight n make any noise.

Hitman Factory 1 SG

think it used to chase n fight with many other cats too all day n nite.

Hitman Factory 1 SG

its now more civilised and just needs folks to pat it on the head.

M874 SG

think it used to chase n fight with many other cats too all day n nite.

To protect my privacy I hv to delete it, sorry!

THANK u for ur help and post.

Hitman Factory 1 SG

best he get sent to doctor.thats onky way to cure him.suspects theres some venom inside the balls that causes brain malfunctionin to occur.

Fugazzi SG

Ts,
U are not in love with him but rather projecting ideas, images of love that u carry in your head and he coming along has made it real. Hence, it is an illusion and it will sooner than u know burst!
His flirting ways is unhealthy not for others but mostly for himself – he lacks love, lacks self-respect. His love is more of an ego trip and nothing to with love.
As long as it is unknown, unacknolwedged any relationship (???) is bound to be that of using another to fulfil oneself. In the short term, it will stay but in the long term only fear,anxiety and misery for both parties.
Whatever he is is his choice, u are responsible what u are and feel. That is something no one can teach excepting pain which is a good teacher. The wise one observes, unlearns and moves along and yet grows.

The unwise blames, escapes and only find onself repeating the same … cos there is no unlearning excepting that of …. which comes painfully.

One has to be wary of those who purport to love but only exploit and call it love

M874 SG

The unwise blames, escapes and only find onself repeating the same … cos there is no unlearning excepting that of …. which comes painfully.

One has to be wary of those who purport to love but only exploit and call it love

To protect my privacy I hv to delete it, sorry!

THANK u for ur help and post.

Fugazzi SG

Ts,
How is it possible for one who is himself/herself unahappy to give or purport to give when oneself lacking/not having it.
Human mind is cunningly rationalzing that it is seem so ‘rite’ when the reality is that of delusion.

Understanding this may avail oneself to ‘answers’ that relates to one’s predicament: love abides absenting fears and reason to love.
When the latter is present it is not love at all but unfulfilled needs and expecations within onself rearing its head.

Love is a sharing of what one is – and that is that of being eg kind, loving, patient or …unfortunately beggary (lack of ‘self’-love) tries to give what was never there and as such it most likely to end up as a mutual benefit scheme. In other words, i do this for u and u do this for me – it is simply trying to love and bound not to happen cos it awaits conditions and the list can simply go on ad finitum!

Dalforce 25 SG

I don't know, I just want him to be happy, even now I still feel the same, I mean I do feel unhappy about what he had done, and complained about that, but deeply in my heart I blame myself for all these. I think it is my fault, all my fault...I wrote him a E-mail, telling him I feel sorry for what I have done, I shouldn't let him know I love him, anyway he is married, that's my bad. I don't have to have him, I just want him feel happy, if he is happy to be with his wife, then I will feel happy for him, no need to have him or have sex with him, that is also what I kept telling him all the time. But he couldn't understand me, he thinks I'm so weird which makes me feel I'm really weird. Does he lack of love? I don't know, but the things which I can give him is not what he want.

I'm so incurable, I don't feel angry with him at all, I just feel so sad about myself, I really wish that he really liked me or loved me because of who I am even just for a minite.

All of above behaviour and thoughts are all wrong. He is the shameless bastard, not you.

This type of thinking is wrong and must be disapproved, they can't be approved.

M874 SG

I don't think it is necessary to have something in return while be in love. If you love someone his/her happyness is the only thing you want, isn't it?

Dalforce 25 SG

I don't think it is necessary to have something in return while be in love. If you love someone his/her happyness is the only thing you want, isn't it?

But he already married. He reduced you to became a third party slut. How?

Darkness_hacker99 SG

He's using the most powerful tactic man ever create; when can't convince, confuse. You're in a state of confusion.

He's the type of guy that will go outside that jiak (affair outside) even when he has a wife. He has a very high sex drive which the wife probably didn't satisfy him enough or their sex life has already died.

Please do not be the next victim and allow him to do this to other girls (including people you have known). Stop this immediate and tell his wife that he's eating outside. Even if you can't save yourself, you still can save other innocent girls. Every girls also have parents who love them a lot and don't want them to be hurt.

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