Why is it so hard to find somebody who likes me?

Jabberwockie2011 SG

Sounds dramatic to me.

When you finally shake off B, you will realise that B's the exact sort of lady that you are looking for.

Sometimes you have to look at people from another prespective.. then you will find and love them for who they really are.. and not who they are trying to be.

I guarantee not !

I have known Miss B for a long time. i even know her parents. I sometimes go to her house when her parents invite us friends to come.

I know and I can guarantee I am not interested nor am I attracted to Miss B !

Miss B and I are only friends.

gorgorlokaychyong SG

obviously, Miss A has no romantic interest in you. May be Miss B likes you and Miss A is doing Miss B a favour by creating opportunity for Miss B and you to spend time together,

If you are not interested, please let Miss B knows.

Jabberwockie2011 SG

obviously, Miss A has no romantic interest in you. May be Miss B likes you and Miss A is doing Miss B a favour by creating opportunity for Miss B and you to spend time together,

If you are not interested, please let Miss B knows.

Cannot do like that. I cannot tell Miss B that unless Miss B expresses her interest in me. All Miss B did was to pester me to give her a ride back home, follow me around. All these are indications but not 100% confirmation.

A girl would feel insulted if I tell her that I am not interested in her. She will surely deny that she like me. Anyway, just because she want to go out with me, doesn't me she likes me. However, I am taking no chances, because I feel being "played out" by Miss A, since she is getting Miss B to divert my attention. So I am not going to go out and entertain Miss B, instead I try to be nice to Miss B but emphasis that we are just friends.

gorgorlokaychyong SG

I did not suggest telling her verbally and directly. In your own diplomatic ways let her know.

Jabberwockie2011 SG

I did not suggest telling her verbally and directly. In your own diplomatic ways let her know.

The best diplomacy is to stop hanging out with this circle of friends, or hang out less. My absence will make Miss B sense that I am not interested and that I have more important things to do than to hang out with Miss B and her friends.

The point here is to try not to be hostile or diplomatically tell miss B you're not interested. Some women tend to misread this kind of diplomacy as "trying to play harder to get or pure ignorance", so they become ever more aggressive.

Moreover, to these circle of friends, they will gang up with Miss A and Miss B to force me play this silly game of cat and mouse: Me chase Miss A, Miss B chase me. In the end, I grow exhausted until I learn to accept Miss B. Its an unfair game that is designed to Miss A and Miss B's advantage.

I shall not fall into this silly games. That is why, I intend to lay low and cut down my social contacts with Miss A & B and their circle of friends for several months. Making myself not available will tend to frustrate them.

gorgorlokaychyong SG

That is a good move. If you have the chance of meeting again, mind the body language, too. Some people will base on body language to tell if someone is interested.

angel7030 SG

Yeah!!!, finally you got a solution, case close.

All rise, close door, off light, release door.

angel7030 SG

That is a good move. If you have the chance of meeting again, mind the body language, too. Some people will base on body language to tell if someone is interested.

Oh, what body language, I just wear abit low cut on top or high cut below, all get interested, so much for body languages

gorgorlokaychyong SG

Oh, what body language, I just wear abit low cut on top or high cut below, all get interested, so much for body languages

man wearing low cut does not appeal to anyone.

Hitman Factory 1 SG

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angel7030 SG

sure legal, here also got alot of pondan for you, why need DVD, go live lah.

Jabberwockie2011 SG

is B ugly?

To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.

I do not go for looks. I go for inner beauty. Both have inner beauty but I have very little in common with Miss B and little chemistry. Miss B is a teacher, so when she speaks to me, she talk to me like I am one of her school students. Its hard to explain, her method of conversation, I don't find very romantic.

Bio-Hawk SG

I have this problem.

"The girls whom I like, always stay far away from me. However, the girls whom I don't like, like to stay close to me".

Here is the start of my problem. I started to have feelings for this girl, A. Miss A gives me the hot and cold treatment. She sometimes, want me to go out with her. When she calls me out, I am either sick, busy or out of the country. When I call her, she is always busy or having meetings.

I am tired of Miss A's hot and cold treatment. Then during one time when Miss A ask me to come out with her friends, she didn't turn up. Instead, Miss B, turns up.

Miss B seem to show an interest in me. She always ask me to accompany her back home and want me to take her around. I have nothing against Miss B, she is a nice person. I like Miss B to be friends. However, I have known Miss B for 2 years, I have thought a lot about it, I just don't have anything in common with Miss B. Furthermore, I have no feelings for Miss B, no chemistry. I only like to be friends with Miss B. I have given all the opportunity to go out with Miss B but I still don't have any feelings for her.

The problem is how to shake Miss B off, without being rude to her? Should I wait until she confesses her feelings for me, then I let her know that we are just friends?

I am tired of these games. It seems everytime I like somebody, she would stay far away from me, and the person that I am not interested in, always want to be with me.

I am just tired, I have nothing in common with Miss B. I like to go play board games like Catan, etc. I tried to take Miss B to play board games, but she is not interested. Miss B is interested in kids, she keeps on talking to me about her students (she is a teacher), but I am just not so keen. However Miss B is a nice person, I like her kindness and caring personality, its just that I have no feelings for her except as friends !

Please HELP ME, ADVICE ? I don't want to offend Miss B nor do I want to lose her as a friend. However, I am tired of not being able to get Miss A's attention.

Dude, how you see Miss B is how Miss A sees you.Get it?

gorgorlokaychyong SG

To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.

She sounds like a mother figure.

angel7030 SG

Dude, how you see Miss B is how Miss A sees you.Get it?

If Dun get it, go look for Miss C and so on...

angel7030 SG

To be fair. Both Miss A and Miss B are not pretty.

Well, it either

A) Miss A

B) Miss B

C) Done of the above

D) All of the above

I alway score well in MCQ paper, never give chance one

If you find Miss B treat you like you are a student, then you act as the principal or the school master, she is sure to respect you. Anyway, teacher are mostly not pretty, if pretty, no need be teacher liao. Every month earn those pathetic paid and yet hv to mark all kind of papers at home and even in starbuck...really pity them, work until forget to get boyfriend, or no boy want..

Sasperillabob SG

Well, it either

A) Miss A

B) Miss B

C) Done of the above

D) All of the above

I alway score well in MCQ paper, never give chance one

You write very funny la.

Are you like some kind of comedian, dress like a clown and talk cock in front of crowd to make them laugh?

gorgorlokaychyong SG

You write very funny la.

Are you like some kind of comedian, dress like a clown and talk cock in front of crowd to make them laugh?

gigabyte14 SG

if she didnt say she likes you

dont assume

milk_milk SG

If all else fails, there’s always Bedok Reservoir for you..

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