there is no better or right way to live life.
Your life is just that......yours. U want to eat, drink, sleep
work, all up to u. What u do does affect the people and environment
around u, but ultimately you're in control of your life.
Nobody ask u to compare to ah beng or ah lian, but if u feel
depressed after doing so...........then stop. Too many enjoyble
things to do than waste time doing the things u don't like
to.
Unless u have real depression....then see a doctor.