I am very surprised with what you are planning to do.......it
seems that you dont know your proper role.........you are a child
of your mother........and you are planning to record a tape to
report your mother to the authorities ?
Have you lost your mind...?
Another thing which makes me concerned....in one of your posts,
you said that due to this problem, you did not have sufficient
chance to be close to your maids......erm....what...?
Why are you concerned about being close to your maids...?
I guess theres some dysfunctions in your family.......but you
need to evaluate yourself too........your attitude is not
correct.....
First, your maid is a worker and is an employee......you can be
close but only to a certain extent.....the maid is not your
surrogate mum, is not your aunty, and is definitely not your
lover.
Second, if you see your mum treating the maid badly, you can
talk and persuade her to treat the maid more appropriately.
Third,
Some things like "lying, exaggerating, non-stop scolding" is not
actually a crime, it is just a personality trait. Why do you want
to tape it and report your mum to the authorities? In fact if her
personality bothers you so much, I think you should tape it and
report to a psychiatrist or a psychologist instead. Or approach
other relatives for help.
Dont exaggerate the problem and take wrong action yourself.
Would u? If ur mum tell ur maid to "use her fucking filipino
intelligence" or "shut the fuck up", shout every morning?
Eh. Personality is one thing. But if someone is a BIG asshole,
how are they gonna learn it's wrong? Just because I wanna report my
mom doesn't mean i don't love her.
So u saying I should keep quiet, allow her to continue because
according to jojobeach, I don't bite the hand that feeds me. But
then again, maybe my maid is an ungrateful bastard also right.
Because my mom is so kind to hire her, so even if my mom fucks her
up, it's ok.
There's only 3 of us in the house. To live together
harmoniously, there must be some kind of respect between everyone.
It's like society. If I see some guy hit his girlfriend in public,
u think i stand there and watch ? It's WRONG. If it takes my mother
getting barred from hiring maids or going to jail or whatever,
frankly, SO BE IT. It's very wrong, and everyone learns lessons in
life the easy way or the hard way. It's either that or as everyone
else says, we kenna period blood in our food.