Chocochips, theres nothing to show off when you are almost 30
years old but still look like a 16-18 year old kid. It hurts
a lot on my self esteem. I'm glad Apples understands.
Hwaimeng, i know theres nothing wrong in marrying a foreign
bride. I had an ex gf whos a thai. But paying $ to get a wife
is wrong. The girl is being compelled to marry
you because she has no choice to. She is doing this out of
poverty. I feel so sorry and guilty if i am doing this. I have
a soft spot and I cant bear to do anything to hurt girls.
Also I think not Singaporean girls are bad. Bashing them and
saying they are lousy is not right too. Marrying a foreign wife
does guarantee you have a good wife too. Whats important is that
this person you're marrying genuine loves you or not.
Singaporean girls also have their good point. One main thing is
that they share the family income and they do a big part to take
care of the family. When you marry a foreign bride, you must be
sure you can take care for her. I also want somebody who can
understand my problems, share my dreams, provide me with moral
support and comfort when I need it. Foreign wives are submissive
yes, but I am not the kind of guy who wants a girl at my beck and
call.
I can only consider this when I ran out of options. But as much
as i try to deny this, I also know i am running out of time. Some
day I will have to face the truth. I am so sad and angry at
myself if I have to resort to this to get married.
I know there are many people who say that being single can be
good too. But I am just not that kind of person.
Without somebody to share my life, give me the support and
comfort when I need, i duno what is my purpose, where is my
direction, who am I living for, what is the hope am I clinging to.
I cannot imagine living the rest of my life like this. Life is so
sad and meaningless like this.
My younger sister shes already married and she has a 3 year old
daughter. My niece is very adorable and I love her very much. But
whenever I see her, I feel just so much sadness inside. I also want
my family. I also want to have my own children. I dont understand
why my sister beat me to it. I am way better looking than her, she
is only ITE grad while I have a degree from SIM.
Right now the center of attention in my family revolves around
my niece and I feel so left out. As the only son of the
family, I feel it is such a shame, especially during chinese new
year, when relatives keep bombarding me with questions that I dont
even have the answers to it myself.
Chinese New Year has become the most hated festival of
my life, believe it or not.
Nice guys really finish last. I am a living example.
PS: Hitman, to answer your question, No. Porn does not get me a
gf and indulging in porn only make girls hate and despise you. How
about I try something else such as slapping you instead?
Are you sure you are not wallowing in self pity? I have a friend
32 this year and looks like a primary school kid and he's only
1.62m.
He married and his kids look like his younger siblings.
His wife looks more like his elder sister but he is happily
married.
You seemed like you are blaming it on your looks and very
reserved.
