I made an account just to reply to you as you are plain pathetic. I
was searching for my ns stuff but you are just sad. So I am going
to help you. Follow my list below.
Things you need to do for yourself:
1) Most important thing you need to work on now is your confidence.
Do up your hair, wear perfume, go to the gym and good clothes
(please ask friends' opinion). I will recommend Zara as a starter.
But eventually, as long as you feel good, nothing else matters.
Walk with your back straight up, head held up, never look down.
Always sit in a relaxed position, talk in a smooth and slow tone,
not too slow but calm.
2) Start talking to the little people (cleaners, security guard,
stall owners, etc). Make yourself known to the people of places you
frequent.
Let me give you a situation, because you made an effort to know
people of a place you frequent say - Mcdonalds. You enter the
restaurant and people starts saying hi to you, you know the manager
and staff. A chic at the corner might be dying to know who you are,
popular people get laid, you have to start small and build your way
up.
When you have the confidence to strike up conversation with people
without shaking like a retard, you are ready to talk to women.
Don't ask for their number first, just talk to them and get
familiar with that feeling.
3) Build your "aura". Since you are 29, the bad boy aura doesn't
really work as a charm since women your age matured quite a bit.
BUT REMEMBER BAD IS GOOD IN THE EYES OF WOMEN, you can figure out
how much bad you need. So I recommend the stable(income)/mysterious
attitude. Mysterious does not mean you go home and do shit in your
basement. I will give you an example of being mysterious.
When a women ask you what do you do for a living, answer "You can't
handle it." There are various replies but you shall learn them
yourself.
4) Read horoscope, I know most people are skeptical to this, but
that is good for you. Since you might be the few that actually
reads it, it gives you a headstart. Horoscopes are not 100% but
they are 50% - 90%. ONLY read personality and behaivour horoscope,
DO NOT READ DAILY HOROSCOPES.
Point being, daily horoscope gives you that mentality that what
happens in the horoscope is actually going to happen to you. So you
subconciously think it's going to happen to you and act that way.
Do not under estimate your subconcious - you think you lose, you
lose.
5) When you finally get a number or get a date, the initial
interval for replies are hours. DO NOT REPLY IMMEDIATELY. Also,
always be the one to end the conversation and act like you are
busy. In the game of women, you have to act, women act pretty damm
well, you just have to act better.
Ignoring a woman certain extend will drive her crazy, if you just
got dumped the best way to get her back is to ignore the fuck out
of her and give her time to miss you. Seriously, many do not agree
but well it's your choice.
6) Different women has different taste, that is why read the
horoscope. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE STAR YOU ARE BORN UNDER. Dress
according to the type of woman you are dating or want to attract,
some women like men with collar shirts, some like tank
tops.
NOW....
I can write a book to teach you how to totally sweep a woman off,
but these are good enough to get you started. It's totally up to
you to believe me, I just stated some points for you.
THE WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR MEN GROWS AS THEY AGE (Total
opposite of women, so cheer up)
Women look for 2 things in a guy - CONFIDENCE & SENSE OF
HUMOUR. Work on both of these.
ps: You have a decent command of english, good point. Now go, I
will come back and give you more tips if I have the time.
