Thats why lah bro.
Harlow, imdestinyz, friend, dude, no one ever said it is BAD
that you are not married by 30 years old ok..
It is when you exceed 30 years old and beyond and still DONT get
hitched which for sure will pose a problem with your future
life.
I did not deny that there are pple who can live, die and rot
alone til their old age. But the question is How Many? Just How
Many of these pple are there? And how many within these group of
pple WILLINGLY wanna be single all their lives? To how many of
such pple staying single til old age is a lifestyle choice?
This is exactly the same like you go out and ask around about
National Service: How many guys in our nation WILLINGLY serve NS
one? I will kowtow 1000 times to you if you can find even a
decent percentage of such pple.
I for one would love to see you put the food on your plate and
make yourself a sacrificial lamb by staying single yourself til old
age to convince pple since you are such an advocate for
it.
Like what Dr. Language said, when you see the friends around you
get married one by one, and yet you are left behind
alone, Those within these group of pple who are trying
forever with no luck, the feeling could be very sour and
excruciating. Wah lao, that is a real personal tragedy loh. The
notion of growing old alone is not exactly something very nice to
look forward to ok. It is for 99% of most pple that it is a deep
seeded feeling of lost and hopelessness.
Especially for those like what TS said NEVER had a relationship
by 30. If they are keen to have one, by the time they reach 30 and
even beyond, it is an alarm clock ringing ~~~ This is an
indication that you DO. NOT. HAVE. MUCH. TIME. LEFT. Particularly
for women, by 30 their biological clock starts ticking louder and
louder, faster and faster.
NAHHH !! I know what cha gonna say again. I know some
pple by the age of this like this, by the age of that like
that. Come on man.. you know you know, you know so what? You know
serves no purpose at all that this is exactly the way it is
loh.
Dont be so hypocritical to post false hope to
humour pple loh. Wake up your idea can?
I dunno la. I got many 20s friends and 30s friends. But I got
friends who are 30s got problem with making babies. Both the
husband and wife go to fertility clinic, doctor say it is the guy's
fault because his sperm count low. Then I got another friend, the
doctor say it is the woman's fault. SO it could be either guy or
girl. That is why I say, if we marry late, we got to be open to
adoption or maybe just get married but no kids.
