I'm also 30 but nvr had a gf.
sometimes the gal don't want me, sometimes is i don't want the
gal.
i do get lonely sometimes lah but come to think about, i do want
someone that i can spend my whole life with, so choosing wisely is
impt.
i choose pple, pple also choose me, so bo pian lah, continue
searching lor.
pple always tell me must change this and change that, i do hear
their advise but with a pinch of salt, got some things it's just
being me. I don't wanna fake it and pretend to be another
person.
pple say got money can get girls. I got money thou not super
rich but above avg and got my own flat but still can't get girl
leh. I normally don't go ard tell the girls what i have, i'm old
fashion and would like the girl to ind out herself.
Good luck and best wishes to you ! There's someone out there for
each individual....dun despair ! 
