It is indeed unfortunate, isnt it?
Well, sometimes we have no control over matters of the heart.
Part of the reason I felt so strongly towards him is because he was
my first ever - in almost everything. Does that now satisfy your
curiousity? It's not like I wanted/asked to take a year to get over
him and the relationship (oh trust me if i could i would have
wanted it to end in like a second); maybe I just take a longer time
than you (or others, i dont know) to heal emotionally.
It is well that you know the reason for your heartache. When I
was 20 I had a 10-month arms-length relationship that never went
past the dating stage and which my ex took very long to get
over.
There is just so much misunderstanding out there over what
relationships are about. We can't have marriage coming overnight.
Some people however are satisfied with having a lifetime of
dissatisfaction.
to alize,
not everyone view courtsip as a trial run...it depends how u
look at it...to such ppl, theres a difference btw dating and
courtship...cating is trial run but courtship is not...perhaps TS
belongs to this category of ppl...
