Bf on the run

MooKu SG

i am very sad

It's a normal reaction.

Be sad about the whole thing.
Then be sad because your ex acted in this way.
Then be sad because your ex is such an asshole.
Then feel sad and sorry for him because he doesn't realize he's crap.

Never feel sorry for yourself.

Go get some ice-cream, stuff yourself silly for one day, go to bed telling yourself over and over again that tomorrow will be a brand new day!

Just don't eat so much that it makes you put on weight cos that will make you feel even crappier.

DRC SG

To TS

1) Why do you think your bf run?

2) What did you quarrel about that forced him to run?

For a guy to run like that something must have happen but TS only say they quarrel. Without the reason for the quarrel I will not say the bf is wrong

CfCJ SG

The only solution for you is to be on your toes once again. life doesnt revolve around bf all the time. You move on as well

Plastic Bag SG

What did u quarrel about?

yolanda2033 SG

I wonder why did you have a heated quarral ?whose fault is it ?

Is that all his fault ?maybe you should calm down and think carefully.if it is your bf fault,

wait for several days until your bf come back to apologize.If he doesn't ,then there is no need to stay with him.

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alize SG

To TS

1) Why do you think your bf run?

2) What did you quarrel about that forced him to run?

For a guy to run like that something must have happen but TS only say they quarrel. Without the reason for the quarrel I will not say the bf is wrong

I ran from mine. I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant bitchin. So I said I wanna end the relationship. After that I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant beggin.

alize SG

The only solution for you is to be on your toes once again. life doesnt revolve around bf all the time. You move on as well

You would have to if your bf had died, anyway.

DrLanguagereborn SG

I ran from mine. I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant bitchin. So I said I wanna end the relationship. After that I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant beggin.

A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.

jollebean SG

it is mainly my fault, i apologised via email. asked if we can try again, he said no, no, no

DrLanguagereborn SG

wah, he is on rehab? He like to sing Amy Winehouse song.

jollebean SG

just want to stress he gave an absolute no via email.

Since then, i have been blocked/deleted on msn. He also didnt reply my sms, phonecalls, emails, requests to meet. Just completely cut me off. Doesn't even tell me more or even want to stay on friendly/neutral terms.

As if im the loan shark, and he is the debtor. He just run away completely. I wonder why?

despondent SG

its to prevent himself from getting soft-hearted if he toks to u...so best is to avoid u so that he wun soften his heart...

Alloy13 SG

If you want closure, and he doesn't do that, close it yourself. Initiate the breakup and move on.

jollebean SG

every r/s i had, turned out to be like a fling, when i thought there seriousness, real liking and commitment on both parties, they just drop me quickly and said like they dont wanna hurt me anymore

our r/s was like it was only testing, rehearsal..then they just ask me wake up and go away.

jojobeach SG

every r/s i had, turned out to be like a fling, when i thought there seriousness, real liking and commitment on both parties, they just drop me quickly and said like they dont wanna hurt me anymore

our r/s was like it was only testing, rehearsal..then they just ask me wake up and go away.

Saying they don't wanna hurt you anymore is just their way of buffering your fall.

I suppose your personality has a lot to do with frequent abrupt breakups after the initial lovey dovies.

A.It's either you are like that sweet juicy apple on the outside, but nasty and rotten to the core after they peeled off the skin.....

B.Or.. those proclamations of forever love are just ways to get inside your panties. If you are those promiscuous type.. then it's no wonder men tend to use you and dump you.

Are you A, B or both ?

wayne471 SG

Forgive me if I'm blunt, but as a guy I figure I'll just drop my 2 cents. If he's doing that to you, chances are he don't love you anymore. He wants to find a new partner and is probably sick and tired of you. It's pointless to try to contact him, his message is clear. You should move on, It ain't the end of the world yet. And don't be so persistent, It will make him even more irritated and nothing good will ever come out of it. There are plenty of nice guys out there (and I don't mean those "nice guys" who are usually neither nice or guys whom are more like attention seeking and desperate bastards)..

What you can do for yourself now is to make him regret the decision of walking away from you, and find yourself a better partner, one who loves you more =P Pick up a hobby/ interest (for e.g. swimming, rock climbing or scuba diving, go on a vacation because you really need a holiday) to keep yourself busy so you don't have to think so much about it, sooner or later the feeling of being hurt will just fade away. At the end of the day, It isn't us guys who pick our partners, all we do is offer you a chance to pick us. Hehe, you should try to smile more, days ahead will only get better.

jollebean SG

thanks, yr message gave me hope

yes he is already shopping for some items for a new girl..saw on his fb..

while refusing to buy me that particular gift..

i hope he come to no good end!!

wayne471 SG

Way to go, girl. =P

whatever happens to him needn't be of your interest anymore.

Cheers ^^

jollebean SG

ya.btw,.he is working in a company called Singlun

jojobeach SG

ya.btw,.he is working in a company called Singlun

I can see now.. why he dumped you.

You can't have him, now you are out to destroy him.

You are a psycho chick.

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