Is my life fated?

Shorter ninja SG

no, u may come alone, but sometime never go alone, there are lots of them accompany you at time you go

You come alone I come alone we cum together la

SIMI TAIJI?

Dr Language SG

As what Loor say, friends come and go. When all our friends get married and have kids, they surely don't have time to hang out with you. That is the cycle of life, if you are left out from the cycle, you have to find new friends. It is not so easy because if you are 27 and all your friends are already married, you have to go back to your old cycle and mix with people who are 24 or 25. Where are you going to find people like that? Your school friends are same age with you. Your work colleagues mostly are married. So that is why important not to miss the cycle.

Nothing wrong with finding a life partner. It is a journey worth the risk. Boyfriend can hurt but eventually will find the right one. If sit on it, no use, person will find it hard to find someone.

Bhw33 SG

no really, you will put alots of pressure on that one good friend, that can be bad if that good fren suddenly give up on you.

And occasionally, for boys, I notice if they have only one good frens, they tends to become gay...oops

U knew I was gay even before my friends whittled down to 1 or 2 recently. So staight men can have one good male friend for bonding, I guess.

mancha SG

You may not know it, but it is all fated.

You stay at home all day all week no friends, wanking, it is fated.

You go clubbing, you meed chio bu, plenty of friends, free drinks, it is fated.

You bored go to museum, look at pictures, it is fated.

You wonder what is life, it is fated.

Whatever, it is all fated.

So what ever you do, just do it. It is fated.

boi_cant tahan SG

thanks alot u guys. haha some of u guys really uplifted me. As much as i u guys trying to advice me getting a life partner, i dont think i want to. I have to go with sarong party boy and ctrlsave. It may added my stress and im alrdy as "stress" as i am now.

Angel7030... thanks for your advice haha. that really helps. but im just wondering, do play games like xbox, ps3 really help me get friends actually?

And some of u guys wanted me to take part in volunteer work. erm how and where should i start?

sorry mancha.. i dont get it

btw im a guy and straight lol =)

mancha SG

You are what you are.

And you will be what you do.

So whatever you do, so will you be.

You will be a product of your actions.

Even doing nothing is an action.

What do you want to do?

This will depend on what you want to be.

You will get moving in one direction, when you know for sure what you want to be.

If you don't know what you want to be, you will also move, but in a direction not dictated by you.

angel7030 SG

Angel7030... thanks for your advice haha. that really helps. but im just wondering, do play games like xbox, ps3 really help me get friends actually?

And some of u guys wanted me to take part in volunteer work. erm how and where should i start?

sorry mancha.. i dont get it

btw im a guy and straight lol =)

Sure, u can go into xbox live, meet lots of friends to challenge, then when meet up, got lots of thing to talk about, so is playing PS on line, so exciting. Study also shown that Games are good for health and also good for people to be active and engaging, it also teach people to think wisely and outwit each other in a friendly manner.

However, you need a mature mind to play games, must know when to stop and dun throw the control at the screen if you lost.

angel7030 SG

You are what you are.

And you will be what you do.

So whatever you do, so will you be.

You will be a product of your actions.

Even doing nothing is an action.

What do you want to do?

This will depend on what you want to be.

You will get moving in one direction, when you know for sure what you want to be.

If you don't know what you want to be, you will also move, but in a direction not dictated by you.

ahem,

You r not what you are, you are merely an illusion fated in a way that you are here and figure your way out of here. The laws of relativity determine your future in relation to you action and the enviroment condition. Moving in one direction in life can be diseastrous if that is the only direction you choose, i recommend you choose a few direction more or less in a way similar and move along, in life, you must allow option and choices, many who chose one direction and when failed to reach, end up suffer from deep depression. Let your life be given a choices, be optimistic and allow failures

Seaweedboi SG

You can start by joining some clubs. I did joined the yishun reading stars, and when i am free from school . i went to visit the kids and teach them how to read, most of the time chatting with them.. Some sort of childcare centre. You can join me if u want on friday :D Some days when you are busy , you can choose not to go. The time is very flexible..

Loor SG

Good to hear. Well done.

boi_cant tahan SG

However, you need a mature mind to play games, must know when to stop and dun throw the control at the screen if you lost.

oh ok. i got an xbox but i didnt subscribe the xbox live yet. alright i try that line out. thanks.

hopefully lots of singaporeans also have xbox live

boi_cant tahan SG

oh ok. i let u know =)

boi_cant tahan SG

oh ok. i let u know =)

angel7030 SG

Alternatively, you can try flying kites, those with running neon lights, I get to know a few cute guys who fly kites at ECP, some let me hv the feel of it. Or you can pick up some healthy sports, alway be happy and join with an open heart. When peoples like you, your phone will start ringing non stop.

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