Need some light on why man can change that fast.. We just had
our wedding 5 mths ago . No quarrel for the past mths. My husband
invited his friends to our place for mahjong and I told him to end
at 1am.. We had quarrels previously on mahjong, coz he always come
back late. So Usually I ask him to be done by 1am.
Today, he behave like he has brain freeze and insisted that he
does not know if they will end at 1,2 or 3am. I am very pissed and
asked him if he wants me to text them to find out. I went ahead
ahead with it since he said I can. But after I sent, he says he
will end the relationship and divorce me if I text his friend.
He took his laptop, left the house. Came back agin to take his
shoes and his essentials. I confronted if he really wants a
divorce. He replied there is no way he can get along with me. He
says that I threaten him and that he is pressurized even with
playing mahjong. For goodness sake, he is challenging me when he
says they may be up till 2,3am.
I was really surprised.. We were still talking about having a
baby days ago.. He was even talking abt it to his mum..
I am very disappointed that the word divorce can be mentioned so
freely.. This is his 2nd marriage & we been through a lot to be
together..
I did not stop him from doing anything, except that he is to
watch his time..
I am wondering if he actually not want this marriage all the
while..
I
He divorced his wife.. probably for the same reason with
you.
He did once.. he can do it again.
You should have known better... what makes you think he will
treat you different this time round ? Are you really so special
?
If you want this marriage to work.. you need to relinquish
control.
If you ever have a baby with him.. remember this... you will be
like living like a single mother... he will not be in your life..
nor his baby life much of the time.
You cannot change a man, he must want to change himself.
