Its ok to be a loner in school.
However are you being true to yourself? Do you really
avoid social interaction with people or are you just
incapable of interacting with people and using this loner term as
an excuse.
To survive as a loner you need to be true to yourself.
Understand that being a loner is not socially accepted in mordern
day society. You will DEFINATELY be scrutinise by people who
practise or what they call the modern day social etiquette of
society.
Alot of people have misconception of being what a loner is.
Often it is mistaken as arrogance or retardation or even
incompetance(since teamwork is critical criteria in the working
aspect). They get the impression that loners are people who don't
speak out at all, have poor communciation and such. All which maybe
untrue. Because there are loners who seperate their professional
lives with social lives. When its time to work, they bring their A
game and perform and after work they go back to becoming the loner
selves. You will have alot to prove and even then people aren't
that willing to accept someone that is different. Some will even
try to convince you that you're mentally sick and you need help but
in actualy fact, they're the retards for not understanding that
each and every one of us are unique individuals and it is through
circumstances and experience that lead and guide us to become who
we are.
Since you're alone, you don't really have anyone who you can
explain to. Only to yourself. So you really really really need to
understand where you're coming from because by being true to
yourself you will avoid of unnecessary conflict with yourself.
Sounds ironic isnt it but it true. Because as a loner, people will
gossip about you and even stir rumours up all which you're
defenceless since you have no one to step up for you but yourself.
There are loners who fail to accept themselves and get greatly
affected by these gossip mongers and then they start hating
themselves for being loners.
You need alot of confidence, to stand up for youself to accept
who you are. You need to convince people that being a loner is
what YOU what. It is something of choice and not circumstances. It
is your choice to be a loner and not because society has
outcast you and hence u become the loner that you are.
Basically you need to toughen your mentality. Don't be shy or
afraid to step up for your rights. if you feel you're being treated
unfairly then voice out. Also be accepting of others if you
want people to accept you. Have an independant mind set. Don't be a
push over. Learn your rights, you rights in society and the right
to be the unique individual that you are.
Just some difficulties you might face as a loner in school
