First of all, I think hiring a PI reflects more about the lack
of trust in the relationship. When there’s a lack of trust,
seriously, the relationship is no longer worth pursuing.
Secondly, you’re only guessing if the lady is sleeping with the
other guy. Sometimes when we’re worried, we tend to bias our
thoughts towards the direction that we want to believe, and it
could be far away from the facts.
Then also, if you have to give money to a lady for her to love
you, then as far as I’m concern, this relationship is more of a
farce than true love.
My suggestion is to forget it. I don’t understand certain things
about guys. If it’s just about looks, I can guarantee plus chop get
a blonde girl with busty boobs to be my girlfriend and wife as long
as I have the money. Problem is, what happens when my biz or career
go down the drain, will the girl stick with me? The thing is, if
you find a girl who is money-oriented, whatever she say about true
love, you can forget those lies. Action speaks louder than
words.
You deserves a better girl with genuine inner good.