Going to the casino, once as a noob is ok. It is getting hooked
that is frown upon.
Looking at porn is ok. Just to look and see how a dick in a
cunt look like. Lotsa people screw, but haven't seen whats
down there. I have seen porn, everything, but I find it
kinda boring, repetition, same thing, only different actors..
The problem comes in when porn becomes a substitute for the real
thing. TS and the wife should have watched porn together, as
someone suggested, and learn some erotica. Indulging in porn is a
solo activity, which makes it convenient to masturbate.
Watching porn with the spouse leads to sexua fun together, unless
of course one finds porn unacceptable. It is the preoccupation with
porn that is the issue. It can aid ones sexual
experience. If used as a means to an end, rather than an end
in its self. i.e. use porn material for highten experience with a
partner, rather than porn for sexual gratification.
TS is going about porn like when he was kid, with fear of the
parents. He is an independent adult now. His only fear should be
the law, and not to get caught.
As with anything, moderation or sparingly is the best.
Fried chicken is good, but everyday? Thats bad.
