I've dated a lot of mommy boys before.. and heard a few horror
stories of my friends who married mommy boys.
There's nothing wrong loving your own mom. In fact, it is bad to
show disrespect to your mother. Because a woman will look at a man
who disrespect and ill treat his mother and think " gee.. he's
probably gonna do that to me in the future."
A mommy boy is one who lets his mom dictate his life. He is "yes
mom" and will not stand up to his own mom even tho what she wants
is unreasonable/impractical and or controlling.
A mommy boy will have a difficult marriage, especially when his
mom is controlling and manipulative to her own desire.
A mommy boy will let his mom tell him how to live his life, and
his wife's life... and his children's life.. because he thinks
"mommy knows best".. but you must understand your mother is not
"unbiased/impartial". Her job is to protect YOU.. not your marriage
nor relationship.
If you are able to think on your own two feet and tell your mom
"no, I don't think that's a good idea." You are NOT a mommy
boy.
Just because she is your mom does not mean she is always right.
Nor is your wife/gf ( to be fair).
Be fair and just. Everyone is looking out for their OWN
interest. Look beyond the he says she says.. and use your own
brain.
Your mom has a husband, your father should be the one
fullfilling her needs, not you. If your mom is lonely and
neglected, you need to go talk to your father and ask him to step
up.
So.. it's not that Mommy boy is not "manly".. it's just that.. a
mommy boy is probably not very "smart"...
Intelligence is something women are attracted to... so that's
why we don't like mommy boy.. because they are kinda dumb.
An example of a mommy boy is ..
You and your gf is out on a evening date after work. You
informed your mother you won't be home for dinner.
Half way through your romantic dinner with your gf.. your mom
calls and demand you go home.. because she cooked dinner.
A mommy boy will dump his gf at the restaurant and run home to
have dinner with his mom.
A NON-mommy boy will remind his mom he is not coming home, and
request his mom to keep the food in the fridge or save it for his
lunch the next day.
Actually sista, mommy's boys are more akin to women, as their gf,
if you know how to act like their mother, you can control them
easily. And most mommy boys listen to woman more than to man, so,
in a way, they do not end up flirting and going out nightly with
those dirty guys of his, that is a good point for whoever is his gf
or wife.
Just imagine, for nearly all his young life, he had been
listening and obeying his mother, psychological speaking, he will
listen to us and lean toward our advices and command, more so, when
his mother passed away, we can have total control of him, can ask
him to work, wash dishes, sweep floor, care for the garden, dogs
and also cut the grasses...where to find such man now a day.
