I would say thank you, but instead I chose to say rubbish.
Because end of the day, we have to be responsible for our own
actions. It is simply impossible to psycho-analyse another person
and assume that we got it right, because humans, unlike program
source files, are not in black and white for us to decipher and
debug.
I imagine this is the tough and challenging part of counselling and
educating , which is why 1 year ago when I was offered a MOE
teacher position, I chickened out at last minute.
How many teachers and counsellors and even religious preachers
we know of, actually have gotten their lives figured out?
Still, like my previous post mentioned, if I meet that boy who
started my nickname in high school, f*** him! But like all boys
realise as they grow through their own pains from army, we f***
each other, but essentially a gut feeling tells us that if anything
bad were to happen, I hope it's not u, f***er. Because u mean
something stoopid to me by being there at that point of time, to
screw up my life, so that I have renewed meaning in my life ten
years later.
OOh.. such a hyprocrite I am.