recently, i've been so aimless in life.
come back from work, straight away go nap, wake up have dinner,
then ish surf net or play guitar/bass.
just now chat with a fren, he ask me weekends got plans boh then
i think to myself, i really dnt have plans leh. it's going to be
surf net, play guitar/bass and tht's it, nothing liao.
and dnt even talk about getting a partner cause i just got
rejected and so it doesn't help in the situation with tht sucky
feeling
This is midlife crisis if you are in the thirties/forties.
If you are in the twenties, start doing something before it
really becomes a midlife crisis.
For starters, you can plan about what to do and where to go
next.
It need not always be about career or love life. Some people
plan to travel to all countires of Europe, others plan to climb all
major mountains in the world. Such aims will steer you forward, and
give you something to look forward to. While you are working, you
will be planning almost everyday after work what to bring along,
what hotels to book, what you will need...etc.
Do not plan something just for the sake of planning though. For
those who I mentioned above, they will feel a sense of satisfaction
after visiting another country or successfully scaling a mountain.
If you are just doing something for the sake of completing it, you
may end up feeling even more hollow afterwards.
I believe there are forummers here who even planned to travel to
certain countries in the world and try out some of the best
delicacies which they have been looking forward to.